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Search found 36 matches
- Mon Apr 08, 2024 2:28 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: A few thoughts
- Replies: 2
- Views: 69
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Re: A few thoughts
I identified a lot with your reflections. I've also been immersed in daydreams for many years, because for me it's impossible to reproduce certain things from my imagination in real life, especially love. Daydreams for me are a kind of escape, where I can alleviate the anguish and constant lonelines...
- Mon Apr 08, 2024 2:13 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Limerence and impact on work decisions
- Replies: 1
- Views: 54
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Limerence and impact on work decisions
Ever since I entered a state of intense Limerence by a co-worker, I noticed that my decisions and behavior at work began to be indirectly influenced by LO. I started measuring all my actions at work with the goal of giving a positive personal image to LO, not only as a co-worker, but as a person. Th...
- Tue Feb 13, 2024 3:37 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Help, 25 years of limerence
- Replies: 20
- Views: 499
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Re: Help, 25 years of limerence
You definitely bear a significant amount of blame for the end of your marriage. You could have been direct, completely cutting off contact with this man when you realized that the situation was damaging your marriage, but you preferred to continue to hope, because perhaps deep down you wanted to hav...
- Mon Jan 29, 2024 2:56 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: One year into no contact with LO
- Replies: 17
- Views: 1081
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Re: One year into no contact with LO
Consider yourself lucky to be able to maintain NC. My LO is a co-worker, and although I don't see her in person every day, I need to deal with messages being sent by her several times throughout the week, and sometimes I also have to be physically close to her, and even experience moments alone just...
- Mon Jan 29, 2024 2:42 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Devastating limerence
- Replies: 23
- Views: 5852
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Re: Devastating limerence
The last few days have been difficult. I was in NC with LO for about a week, but last week I saw her again, which obviously triggered a worsening of my emotional state. It definitely seems like all my remaining hopes of pushing away LE's overwhelming feelings are always shattered with each new inter...
- Tue Jan 09, 2024 2:11 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Where does Limerence end and real Love begin?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 2354
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Where does Limerence end and real Love begin?
I've been thinking about all the overwhelming feelings caused by Limerence, and as much as I'm aware that this state of mind isn't normal, deep down I refuse to believe that there isn't a point of reality between what's caused by limerence and what I actually feel about LO. I get this sense of the g...
- Sun Jan 07, 2024 12:44 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Extreme limerence for employee
- Replies: 13
- Views: 3044
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Re: Extreme limerence for employee
As someone who is also going through an intense Limerencia episode by a co-worker, I know how hard is having to keep interacting and meeting with LO every day. Unfortunately, NC is not a viable option at work, which makes it even more difficult to reduce feelings of limerence. You're also dealing wi...
- Sun Dec 31, 2023 8:04 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2601
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Re: It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season
Today I dreamed that I was at LO's house, and that we were dancing together. It was so lucid that I could feel the warmth of her body in contact with mine.
I won't be able to endure this New Year's Eve sober, so I plan to be drunk on wine before midnight.
I won't be able to endure this New Year's Eve sober, so I plan to be drunk on wine before midnight.
- Mon Dec 25, 2023 4:11 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2601
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It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season
In addition to the distressing and heightened LE feelings because of the holiday festivities, it's hard to deal with social media posts and still try to keep NC with LO. Today, for example, I couldn't, I succumbed to temptation and sent a Merry Christmas message to LO. Although it was just a generic...
- Tue Dec 05, 2023 2:58 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: The line between self care and self-discipline
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3421
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Re: The line between self care and self-discipline
I mentioned this today in my therapy session. I feel very tired and unmotivated to start any personal project. I suffer in anticipation and end up doing nothing, which also causes me suffering anyway. The fog of LE and constant anguish that I've been feeling year after year has killed all my dreams ...