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by Daydreaming
Thu Apr 22, 2021 4:18 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Friends first, LOs second
Replies: 13
Views: 259
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Friends first, LOs second

I know how much these symbolic dates can impact our behavior and intrusive thoughts. On these occasions my mind was in a constant state of alert trying to create some kind of action to reach LO and show that my thoughts were directed to it. It is so frustrating to live surrounded by elements that fo...
by Daydreaming
Sun Feb 07, 2021 4:35 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A Question For Serial Limerents
Replies: 7
Views: 334
Gender:
Brazil

Re: A Question For Serial Limerents

About three years since the last contact with LO, I still harbor thoughts about her every day, even though they don't have as much impact on my psychological as before. The main trigger is adverse situations. Whenever I am going through a difficult situation, thoughts about LO appear with greater in...
by Daydreaming
Wed Oct 14, 2020 1:21 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Songs to help us move on and heal from limerence
Replies: 271
Views: 58845
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Songs to help us move on and heal from limerence

[Chorus] Just take one step closer Put one foot in front of the other You'll get through this Just follow the light in the darkness You're gonna be ok [Verse 2] I know your heart is heavy from those nights But just remember that you are a fighter, a fighter You never know just what tomorrow holds A...
by Daydreaming
Mon Oct 12, 2020 8:20 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: LOs girlfriend making my life miserable
Replies: 3
Views: 336
Gender:
Brazil

Re: LOs girlfriend making my life miserable

I also went through a situation where a person inadvertently told me about LO's sex life after they were supposed to be together. It was so painful that I was never able to speak to that person again for fear that they would mention LO again. Sometimes it is better to close your eyes to certain thin...
by Daydreaming
Mon Oct 12, 2020 7:21 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Considerable anxiety in the presence of LO
Replies: 10
Views: 604
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Considerable anxiety in the presence of LO

The few times I have been close to LO my anxiety levels have been considerably high. I could barely think to try to maintain a natural dialogue. Several times I also had to rehearse a dialogue before meeting LO. I think the uncertainty of how LO is going to react in my presence was the biggest motiv...
by Daydreaming
Mon Oct 12, 2020 7:15 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Pics of LO
Replies: 23
Views: 1573
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Pics of LO

MrSpock: Most of these LE's have no definitive closure to them. One has to create that closure, so to adopt the view of her closing it out is actually a good thing. At least now you can stop wondering about it and this eliminates the possibility for reconnection at some point because it doesn't mat...
by Daydreaming
Mon Oct 12, 2020 6:57 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Pics of LO
Replies: 23
Views: 1573
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Pics of LO

I have a folder on my computer with hundreds of photos taken from LO's social media and her family. I also have screenshots of some conversations and publications that I think it is important to keep stored in order to remember moments of reciprocity with LO. I have a picture of her on my phone take...
by Daydreaming
Mon Oct 12, 2020 6:52 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?
Replies: 1705
Views: 186124
Gender:
Brazil

Re: What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?

This song translates my feelings on the worst days.

by Daydreaming
Sun Jun 28, 2020 4:54 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: DO NOT RESPOND TO NODAYDREAMING
Replies: 57
Views: 3241
Gender:
Brazil

Re: DO NOT RESPOND TO NODAYDREAMING

I am surprised by this, I always saw this member as the most active in the community and on many occasions interacting a lot with other users on the most diverse topics. I didn't think he would act that way, even because other people were always very receptive to him. A warning to community members:...
by Daydreaming
Sun Jun 14, 2020 4:43 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Facebook knows
Replies: 2
Views: 349
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Facebook knows

It reminds me of the time when I spent hours looking for posts on Facebook pages that caught LO's attention just so I could share and get a like from her. After each shared publication, my anxiety level was extremely high while I waited for some interaction from her, and when that finally happened, ...