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I think that lack of rationality is a characteristic of Limerence that affects men and women equally.

Hi there, I’m having the same issue with a work colleague who I’ve got extreme limerence for. Told me she was pregnant when we were getting closer… so so painful As in my case, I believe that it will be very difficult months witnessing LO live the pregnancy, then the absence of maternity leave and ...

Hi All, Update on what’s happened since then… feels like a lifetime ago so was browsing through and it was January when I posted about this… well fast forward 7 months and the msgs have continued if not got even more advanced, she confessed her feelings to me in February and said she felt the same ...

Just ran into mine at a beach with her BF. When reality pops in about their real worlds it should send a clear signal to our brains. Trying to be something in their world becomes sad, and yet we try and figure out how to be in both worlds. The LE mind needs to protect at all costs. I suppose the on...

For a moment my world fell apart. We had been out of contact for a few weeks due to my attempts to push away the feelings of Limerence, when I received this news from a colleague who LO revealed that she was pregnant from husband's. It was a complete shock, despite it being something predictable tha...

Are there any expressive characteristics that differentiate Borderline from Limerence? What do you mean DD? Can you expand on this. What is it that you are see in yourself that relates to BPD as well as being limerent? People with borderline personality disorder feel incomplete and dependent on oth...

I was reading about Borderline Personality Disorder and I identified a lot with some aspects that I currently define as symptoms of Limerence. Are there any expressive characteristics that differentiate Borderline from Limerence?

I identified a lot with your reflections. I've also been immersed in daydreams for many years, because for me it's impossible to reproduce certain things from my imagination in real life, especially love. Daydreams for me are a kind of escape, where I can alleviate the anguish and constant lonelines...

Ever since I entered a state of intense Limerence by a co-worker, I noticed that my decisions and behavior at work began to be indirectly influenced by LO. I started measuring all my actions at work with the goal of giving a positive personal image to LO, not only as a co-worker, but as a person. Th...

You definitely bear a significant amount of blame for the end of your marriage. You could have been direct, completely cutting off contact with this man when you realized that the situation was damaging your marriage, but you preferred to continue to hope, because perhaps deep down you wanted to hav...