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Search found 34 matches

by Daydreaming
Tue Feb 13, 2024 3:37 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Help, 25 years of limerence
Replies: 20
Views: 484
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Help, 25 years of limerence

You definitely bear a significant amount of blame for the end of your marriage. You could have been direct, completely cutting off contact with this man when you realized that the situation was damaging your marriage, but you preferred to continue to hope, because perhaps deep down you wanted to hav...
by Daydreaming
Mon Jan 29, 2024 2:56 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: One year into no contact with LO
Replies: 15
Views: 987
Gender:
Brazil

Re: One year into no contact with LO

Consider yourself lucky to be able to maintain NC. My LO is a co-worker, and although I don't see her in person every day, I need to deal with messages being sent by her several times throughout the week, and sometimes I also have to be physically close to her, and even experience moments alone just...
by Daydreaming
Mon Jan 29, 2024 2:42 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Devastating limerence
Replies: 23
Views: 5831
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Devastating limerence

The last few days have been difficult. I was in NC with LO for about a week, but last week I saw her again, which obviously triggered a worsening of my emotional state. It definitely seems like all my remaining hopes of pushing away LE's overwhelming feelings are always shattered with each new inter...
by Daydreaming
Tue Jan 09, 2024 2:11 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Where does Limerence end and real Love begin?
Replies: 10
Views: 2336
Gender:
Brazil

Where does Limerence end and real Love begin?

I've been thinking about all the overwhelming feelings caused by Limerence, and as much as I'm aware that this state of mind isn't normal, deep down I refuse to believe that there isn't a point of reality between what's caused by limerence and what I actually feel about LO. I get this sense of the g...
by Daydreaming
Sun Jan 07, 2024 12:44 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Extreme limerence for employee
Replies: 13
Views: 3031
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Extreme limerence for employee

As someone who is also going through an intense Limerencia episode by a co-worker, I know how hard is having to keep interacting and meeting with LO every day. Unfortunately, NC is not a viable option at work, which makes it even more difficult to reduce feelings of limerence. You're also dealing wi...
by Daydreaming
Sun Dec 31, 2023 8:04 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season
Replies: 6
Views: 2599
Gender:
Brazil

Re: It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season

Today I dreamed that I was at LO's house, and that we were dancing together. It was so lucid that I could feel the warmth of her body in contact with mine.
I won't be able to endure this New Year's Eve sober, so I plan to be drunk on wine before midnight.
by Daydreaming
Mon Dec 25, 2023 4:11 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season
Replies: 6
Views: 2599
Gender:
Brazil

It's hard to stay strong during the holiday season

In addition to the distressing and heightened LE feelings because of the holiday festivities, it's hard to deal with social media posts and still try to keep NC with LO. Today, for example, I couldn't, I succumbed to temptation and sent a Merry Christmas message to LO. Although it was just a generic...
by Daydreaming
Tue Dec 05, 2023 2:58 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: The line between self care and self-discipline
Replies: 4
Views: 3418
Gender:
Brazil

Re: The line between self care and self-discipline

I mentioned this today in my therapy session. I feel very tired and unmotivated to start any personal project. I suffer in anticipation and end up doing nothing, which also causes me suffering anyway. The fog of LE and constant anguish that I've been feeling year after year has killed all my dreams ...
by Daydreaming
Wed Nov 22, 2023 2:43 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Back to Limerence after healing period
Replies: 5
Views: 2451
Gender:
Brazil

Re: Back to Limerence after healing period

Rather than trying to help me overcome LE, the psychologist seems to be believing that my feelings are real, not fanciful, and that I am in a normal state of being in love. Interesting DD I don't know if I'm going to keep putting up with this for long. I'm tired, feeling lonely, and completely lost...
by Daydreaming
Wed Nov 22, 2023 2:00 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What is the fastest and most effective measure against LE?
Replies: 7
Views: 2512
Gender:
Brazil

Re: What is the fastest and most effective measure against LE?

JupiterTaco wrote: Wed Nov 22, 2023 1:47 am Building a life that you don't have to escape from.
Right now I'm struggling not to lose the few things I have in life. I don't know if I'll ever be able to build a life that I don't want to escape.
My feeling now is that I want to run away from myself, my thoughts, and even my life.