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by marko
Sun Jul 02, 2023 4:39 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Breaking NC part 2
Replies: 12
Views: 608
United States of America

Re: Breaking NC part 2

OK, you baited and I'll bite a bit. It's also bigotry to lump all with some, or many. Now it's emasculated males that make the women pissed as well. They still go after the bad boy and help support the idea we need to be something near perfect. I could point out the womens choice to believe that som...
by marko
Sun Jul 02, 2023 4:06 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How long has your current limerance been going on?
Replies: 4
Views: 256
United States of America

Re: How long has your current limerance been going on?

Since February I suppose. I escape limerantly most of my life. 2017 was more significant in that I had no idea what and why. I just knew I coudn't stop the thoughts. This new one had me thinking too much like I do with most things, but I thought oh oh when my underarms started sweating when she was ...
by marko
Thu Jun 29, 2023 1:20 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Breaking NC part 2
Replies: 12
Views: 608
United States of America

Re: Breaking NC part 2

That's the reality that plays as well. The answers are always obvious and point to the futility that makes this a stupid thing to be and do, yet here we are. I remember a guy here back in 17 who had a similar thing. At the time I thought it preposterous as they mostly remind me of my children. Oh th...
by marko
Wed Jun 28, 2023 5:56 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Breaking NC part 2
Replies: 12
Views: 608
United States of America

Re: Breaking NC part 2

Still glad I did it. I'm at that sad only stage, and not worrying about me being weird or rejected helps just enough. I know LE makes me feel younger and as this summer passes I feel only the downside of this. I cringe more and more over the youth grab and feel more out of place. It adds perspective...
by marko
Wed Jun 28, 2023 5:46 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What the LO's said to hook me
Replies: 11
Views: 502
United States of America

Re: What the LO's said to hook me

16, but it seems fine as she never reaches out. If she had a small interest, that has passed as I'm so thankful for that. But even then it was small chat and there wasn't anything more than asking about my world a bit. To take it down even further, I'm also sure she sat by me so she could use her ph...
by marko
Mon Jun 26, 2023 2:28 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Breaking NC part 2
Replies: 12
Views: 608
United States of America

Breaking NC part 2

Last week was tough. I was going with my son to his friends wedding quite a distance and the LE had me very trouble all week. The depressing thoughts and constant thinking about all of it and that I needed to be OK with the LO. I was also weighing the great ideas on sitting with what you don't know,...
by marko
Thu Jun 22, 2023 3:05 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Breaking NC
Replies: 8
Views: 325
United States of America

Re: Breaking NC

This is the inner part of this illness. We have no real friendship, and no real connection. This is the inner self trying to feel better. I see I also probably transferred some of my will to heal my daughter onto her. 2017 had more relation and a few sexual components, this one has primarily connect...
by marko
Wed Jun 21, 2023 3:46 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Breaking NC
Replies: 8
Views: 325
United States of America

Re: Breaking NC

It's good you blocked your old LO. It's hard to know what is mind games with this. Blocking and wondering can still be a play, but it's certainly a better one. The depression is a struggle because of the people around me who suffer because of me. It also gets depressing knowing what your mind is cap...
by marko
Tue Jun 20, 2023 6:17 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: The two faces of LE
Replies: 7
Views: 248
United States of America

Re: The two faces of LE

I did the diagnosis. It was a VA psych who I felt handed out pills and BP to everyone who came in the door. I obsess over this lady and feel great, I have guilt and can't stop I feel bad--OK, you swing high and low "You BP". I saw a room of drugged missing people and I kind of knew that it...
by marko
Tue Jun 20, 2023 6:06 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Limerence is Ruining my Life
Replies: 2
Views: 339
United States of America

Re: Limerence is Ruining my Life

One positive is you recognize things aren't right. Limerence makes me feel very special and I run blindly into things. Even though I'm married, I now have many thoughts like yours and feel that it's bad because I made relationship choices while limerant. The so attached I can't function is to me a p...