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I'm a serial limerent, and even in the course of my time here on this forum (I joined in 2017) have gone through a few different LOs. The last 18 months or so, I've actually been in a pretty good place and aside from a few minor slip ups here or there have basically been limerence free in that time....

I randomly rediscovered this song recently. Even though I've not really been limerent recently (knock on wood), the lyrics immediately reminded me of what the limerent experience is like. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikv_sPZId4U How long will I be waiting? Until the end of time I don't know why I...

As for the other replies about family dynamics or what LO represents to me, I can try to guess. In many superficial ways, LO and I were kind of similar back when I knew her better. I say superficial because even when we were in school together, I didn't know her all that well. But we were both quiet...

Stuck, is there any reason why you can't reach out? Are you single? If so then I'd reach out. I am confused whether this is limerence or a crush. As to 'why her?'... Why not? People fall limerent for people they've never met nor know (celebrities). You could go down the spiritual path and look at i...

I went to High School with my current LO. I've had several LOs before her, but this current one has been going off and on for about a year and a half. Here's what I don't get - why her? Why can't I shake it? I'm 29 - I graduated HS in 2012, and in HS I wasn't close to LO at all. To the point that, i...

I see people on here who have partners already while they are limerant and I want to know how you get to that place. And what if I find someone but it never feels right? What if I never stop wanting what I can't have. How do I figure out what needs I have that need to be met to get out of this addi...

As a postscript to that now 24 hours later, I have been thinking about LO today. But unlike past LOs where I'd feel this burning desire to try to cross paths, thinking about LO now just makes me sad. Just the realization that I will never be with this person makes me very sad. No intense LE feelings...

Well it's been over a year since I last posted, and now I'm back. I want to say up front, despite the fact that I'm back, limerence has not been a big issue for me over the last year and I'm very thankful for that (but more on why I think that is later, and why it's not all so positive). Last time I...

A week later, and I'm 100% limerent again. It's as bad as it's ever been. I connected with LO on social media, but I didn't say anything to her. I still really want to, but I don't think I'm going to.

This too shall pass.

Another post since I literally have had LO on my mind every single second since I said bye to her about 24 hours ago. As I alluded to in my last post, I'm extremely conflicted on how to proceed. I was in the same position with my last LO where I was single and thought she was as well, so I asked her...