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At what point does limerence become something else? Do you see a limerent as an unhinged person, or is that someone beyond limerent fantasies? Is a limerent person delusional, or are they normal with a hint of fantastical thinking? Where is the limerent limit? From soft-core daydreaming to deranged ...

On the flip side, you witnessed the hideous side of abusive power and how abusers operated manipulating situations to suit themselves.

In the end, I felt sorry for Martha and felt the biggest monster that should have been reported, and put in prison, was the man who raped him.

It was interesting to see LO admit he got something from his stalker, an ego-boost of some sort and even though he wanted her to go away, he never really tried to put up boundaries. Sadly, he did the same thing with his sodomising abuser. Throughout the movie, there was this sick dance between lack ...

Hey Generallyfading, could you reach out to David who might be able to suggest some contact numbers for a supportive listening ear given he is in the same country?

How are you today?

Just finished watching 'Baby Reindeer' " a British dark comedy psychological drama-thriller miniseries created by and starring Richard Gadd. An adaptation of Gadd's autobiographical one-man show of the same name, the series is based on Gadd's real-life experience of being stalked and sexually a...

Hey, I'm here for you, and I care about your well-being. It takes a lot of courage to share how you're feeling, and I'm glad you did. Please know that you're not alone, and there are people who want to help. I'm happy to hang out and chat on here, I won't lecture, counsel or judge. Your life is valu...

Scratching my head wondering what these stories have to do with limerence. Can you elaborate JT? Was the protagonist infatuated with the abuser? Sorry, haven't read them and trying to piece the story together with 'limerence' in mind.

After signing in to my tiktok account (had uninstalled it due to the crap on there), I couldn't help laughing at the comments on Ruth's post in the link above. I sooooo wanted to reply to comments but feel it's like arguing with people for no reason. I can see Ruth is triggered and responding ration...

Ruth is far too securely attached and Savvy to put up with any gaslighting. It feels like that’s the latest buzz word along like you say with Everyone on social media being diagnosed as a narcissist. The comments just go to show the level of awareness when it comes to relationships. Maybe we both l...

The one thing I don't agree with is that Limerence is a mistake "once is a mistake, twice is a habit". To me, limerence is a cry for help from the depths of our unknown self/soul/subconscious mind for a chance to heal childhood wounds. If you don't get it (wake up to the souls need), then ...