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After signing in to my tiktok account (had uninstalled it due to the crap on there), I couldn't help laughing at the comments on Ruth's post in the link above. I sooooo wanted to reply to comments but feel it's like arguing with people for no reason. I can see Ruth is triggered and responding ration...

Ruth is far too securely attached and Savvy to put up with any gaslighting. It feels like that’s the latest buzz word along like you say with Everyone on social media being diagnosed as a narcissist. The comments just go to show the level of awareness when it comes to relationships. Maybe we both l...

The one thing I don't agree with is that Limerence is a mistake "once is a mistake, twice is a habit". To me, limerence is a cry for help from the depths of our unknown self/soul/subconscious mind for a chance to heal childhood wounds. If you don't get it (wake up to the souls need), then ...

Interesting feedback! A lot of anger there. Ruth was gaslit... Are you gaslighting David??? You narcissist you! =)) Oh, how I luvvv that word. People going around diagnosing another with a mental illness. In 10 years, the N-word will be swapped out for something else. But seriously, humour goes a lo...

Sorry to see you back Marko.
You could be right, this might be your life pattern, for life. Who knows, only you can alter that. All the best.

Well GF, just letting you know there are people out there who do care. Even complete strangers. Please look after yourself, eat well and make sure you get decent sleep. All this stuff I know you know. Your body & mind will thank you for it. Physical and mental care is hugely important for anyone...

going through this makes me realise that actually, perhaps limerence is more common than we know, and those people are not offered any insight other than "You need to leave him" or them staying. I don't think I'd stay with my LO if he were abusive, Yeah, I wouldn't stay in an abusive rela...

Welcome to the forum GF! Unfortunately I cannot bring any clarity that you might be seeking but I can empathise with your limerent brain having had one. Its so weird calling it a limerent brain but not sure what else to call it. Hey you bring up a good point! do battered wives/husbands actually suff...

Yesnomaybeso! I'm so glad for you that you are now feeling authentic love and life is more fulfilling for you. It sounds like you've uncovered your truth and can see where & why daydreaming played a role.
Im so pleased for you Yesnomaybeso!

Hey DD, have you tried talking to LO about feeling left out?

Daydreaming wrote: ↑Mon Apr 08, 2024 2:13 am LO didn't tell me something important that directly affected me at work. I felt betrayed and had the feeling that I had been left out, even after supporting her on so many occasions.