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by Acrobatica
Fri Jul 31, 2020 4:34 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
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Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

by Acrobatica
Wed Jul 29, 2020 11:21 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
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Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

Full of Regret I want to point out that I did not ask for advice when L-F insulted me and wished me physical harm. I was sharing with a new user what worked for me. Nor were others necessarily asking for advice. I am asking for a minimal standard of decency. I understand I have no control of this fo...
by Acrobatica
Wed Jul 29, 2020 8:48 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

And David, I sincerely hope you read this.

https://www.theverge.com/2018/7/12/1756 ... ment-abuse

And thank you to everyone who commented on this post.
by Acrobatica
Wed Jul 29, 2020 8:12 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

This is Reddit's posting policy. Reddit is not a mental health forum. In general, be courteous to others. Attack ideas, not users. Personal insults, shill or troll accusations, hate speech, any advocating or wishing death/physical harm, and other rule violations can result in a permanent ban. I want...
by Acrobatica
Tue Jul 28, 2020 7:47 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

I just want to note that I saw this at the top of the forum. A support forum on limerence, love addiction, romantic infatuation, affair recovery and human growth. This is a self-moderated forum. Please bear this in mind if you are easily triggered or offended. David. You are engaging in gaslighting ...
by Acrobatica
Tue Jul 28, 2020 4:32 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

The post I took from before, and the one below is from the thread, "Do I really have this, or is he a narcissist." February 18, 2020. I would like to point out that L-F never apologized, but instead, as I have seen before, she doubled down as she is doing now. And continued to call me abus...
by Acrobatica
Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:15 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

And David. I am formally lodging a complaint against L-F based on that post.

I am happy to also do that privately if that is the protocol.
by Acrobatica
Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:12 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

This is what L-F wrote to me when I wrote to a new member that she may want to trust her instincts that her LO was demonstrating clear narcissistic behavior patterns. Acro - Well I know a 45 year old married woman throwing herself at a 24year old young man, using tears (emotional manipulation) to tr...
by Acrobatica
Mon Jul 27, 2020 6:13 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

So after years, I have finally started to feel pain, actually feel it, instead of just intellectually recognize it, when someone says something painful. Feeling our pain is what is needed for our healing. The pain of grieving. We need to look within to see where that pain emanates from - usually ch...
by Acrobatica
Mon Jul 27, 2020 5:47 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3578
France

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

This article does an excellent job of encapsulating why the advice often given on this forum, to look within, is actively harmful advice.

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/recoveri ... tic-abuse/