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by Whiskeyjack
Sat Dec 01, 2018 6:49 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
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Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Great job so far Maddie. Christmas sounds promising. So nice to hear. Hope you have a good weekend.
by Whiskeyjack
Sun Nov 25, 2018 8:38 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Is NC really going to help? Should I just bite the bullet and go by to see him, just to see what happens? Actually, you're 'biting the bullet' by going NC. When we 'bite the bullet' we grit our teeth and do something necessary that's unpleasant and hard. That's NC all right. Going to see your LO is...
by Whiskeyjack
Sat Nov 24, 2018 4:46 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Good job. You got this.
by Whiskeyjack
Sun Nov 18, 2018 12:22 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

You're strong Maddie, you can work through this. Think of your family, think of your kids.
You can do this!
by Whiskeyjack
Thu Nov 08, 2018 1:29 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Good job not sending the message.
Can you find something to distract yourself with?
Stay strong Maddie, you can do this.
by Whiskeyjack
Fri Nov 02, 2018 11:11 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Happy anniversary! Enjoy your day!
by Whiskeyjack
Thu Nov 01, 2018 7:09 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Way to stay strong with the NC Maddie. Good on you for resolving to get off social media. What helped me get through the worst of my LE was that I didn’t search out LO on any social media platform. Oh, I certainly wanted to. I knew though, that it would keep me in a bad place I really wanted to get ...
by Whiskeyjack
Fri Oct 26, 2018 3:09 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

You're doing great Maddie! Keep it up!
Strength to you.
by Whiskeyjack
Fri Oct 12, 2018 12:21 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

Maddie wrote: Thu Oct 11, 2018 10:47 pm I know that the feelings will dissipate, and the longing will too, over time with NC and increased bonding with SO, and working on my relationship with me
Yes, Maddie, the feelings and longing WILL dissipate over time if you do all three. I can definitely attest to that.
Stay strong.
by Whiskeyjack
Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:36 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"
Replies: 343
Views: 4859
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question-- trying to back out of this "relationship"

You showed impressive strength today Maddie. Bravo! Looking forward to seeing more feats of strength in the days ahead.