limerence.net

Sorry about that! I’m not sure how to get it to work. It is on YouTube by Heidi Priebe. It’s called, “Limerence: 5 Signs You are Self-Regulating Through Romantic Obsessions.” It really spoke to me. I have a lot of shame and went through a lot of bullying and struggle. I don’t consciously do the thin...

This video is to me is an excellent look at how we can use limerance to self regulate and how shame is related to difficulty with self regulation. Shame can make it difficult to connect with others. I found it interesting and helpful.

I think you’re on to something LF and will investigate this more. Thank you!

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I have just learned about maladaptive daydreaming and it’s an interesting concept. I’ve always been a big daydreamer. Thanks for the link

LF, I didn’t write that response too well lol. I know you meant to compare notes with another women to see if we’ve been treated the same. I put the part in about not contacting him to remind me. My T is really helpful and I need to continue to work on this. Thanks for your input. I realize that rea...

Thanks Zsa Zsa Baby for the encouragement. I like that it’s possible to ride out the conflicting feelings but not act out on them. I also don’t owe him anything. In reality I owe it to my SO to stay away from this guy. Thanks again.

I thought about that too LF but it feels to risky and there’s no way to prove what’s not in writing. My T thinks better not to and to try to limit contact as much as possible. I had been doing well with that so need to focus on that. Sometimes easier said than done. She feels I was doing great until...