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For the past 5 months I've been dating a man where it is absolutely clear that he is interested in me. It's easy. I'm not preoccupied with the things that limerence bring along. It's amazing don't get me wrong. But because of limerence, because of how I used to feel when I "liked" someone ...

Hmm does anyone have any advice for when you get to the point in your life where you somehow stop following other people to give you direction in life and now feel like you have absolutely no clue what to do because you feel like you don't know yourself enough to make decisions? I just feel really w...

The whole you attract what you are thing is kinda true. A few years ago I went of a few dates with this women. She seemed really nice but on the second date she opened up to me about something bad that happened to her years ago and whilst I'm a very understanding person it made me feel uncomfortable...

Lately life has been pretty shit. Been feeling very lonely. Being more self aware than in previous times always worried that when I feel this way the urge for limerence with resurface. I haven't been socialising. I've been staying home a lot more and it's really unhealthy for me. I'm basically hidin...

Idk how many rounds of limerence I've gone through in my life but at this point I'd say around 6 with varying degrees. My most recent was brought on simply by going on a date with someone. But it's not the worst one I've ever had and I know this will pass relatively quickly. I've learnt a lot throug...

Binge eating was my first addiction and it first showed up when I was a kid. Then limerence then spending and now it's mostly a mix of food and limerence.

I have been someone else's LO and it was not fun. I didn't realise until after that that was happening. It felt like I was stuck in an emotional tornado and it took me a while to be able to get myself out of it. They eventually moved on to someone else and things got better. We're friends now and ho...

I really can relate to this post. I often feel this way on my healing journey. It can be quite frustrating. I'm trying to be patient this time around and stop trying to take the easier way out.

I personally feel that trauma is a big part as to why I started limerence when I was younger. Is it at all possible for people to not have trauma and experience limerence?

I had a realisation that I'm a covert codependent. The way I know this is the way I feel when in Limerence. It's all textbook codependency but with someone I barely know and can't/won't date. So I'm considering CODA but would love to get any suggestions/experiences/advice. Thanks