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by Yesnomaybeso
Mon Oct 17, 2022 5:31 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Is trauma always the reason?
Replies: 6
Views: 155
Gender:
Australia

Is trauma always the reason?

I personally feel that trauma is a big part as to why I started limerence when I was younger. Is it at all possible for people to not have trauma and experience limerence?
by Yesnomaybeso
Thu Sep 22, 2022 8:49 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Could CODA help with Limerence?
Replies: 2
Views: 87
Gender:
Australia

Could CODA help with Limerence?

I had a realisation that I'm a covert codependent. The way I know this is the way I feel when in Limerence. It's all textbook codependency but with someone I barely know and can't/won't date. So I'm considering CODA but would love to get any suggestions/experiences/advice. Thanks 🙂
by Yesnomaybeso
Sun Aug 28, 2022 4:42 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Not quite limerence but on the cusp
Replies: 0
Views: 93
Gender:
Australia

Not quite limerence but on the cusp

I haven't posted here in a while and honestly I've been quite happy about that. But just this weekend I met up with someone for the first time in an attempt to make friends and 2 days later I feel these feelings I felt with limerence start back up. I had fun with him and he actually asked questions ...
by Yesnomaybeso
Fri Aug 13, 2021 12:43 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: It's a tough road
Replies: 2
Views: 131
Gender:
Australia

It's a tough road

Whilst I feel as though I am close to healed little things keep coming up which worry me. I've been casually seeing someone for months and I never felt.. up until now.. this unshaky feeling I felt through limerence. This feeling of rejection which makes me feel sad. Like I've lost something importan...
by Yesnomaybeso
Tue Feb 23, 2021 9:54 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: In need of some words of wisdom
Replies: 15
Views: 544
Gender:
Australia

In need of some words of wisdom

For quite a while I've been feeling free of this. But recently I decided to dip my toe into online dating. Everything was going fine until I started obsessively checking my messages, thinking about him a little too much after only 2 dates. I couldn't believe after the pain and torture I went through...
by Yesnomaybeso
Tue Sep 01, 2020 1:56 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: when you stop chasing people
Replies: 1
Views: 306
Gender:
Australia

when you stop chasing people

Life feels so much lighter and easier. You realise how many years you've lost focusing on someone outside yourself. I'm far from cured but this is the most free I've felt since limerence. Part of me feels sad because I wasted about 3 years obsessed over someone that wasn't real. But the lessons I've...
by Yesnomaybeso
Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:28 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: My LO isn't who I thought he was
Replies: 2
Views: 381
Gender:
Australia

My LO isn't who I thought he was

it took me way too long to see who my LO really was. I put myself in a stupid situation. We ended up making out and I felt absolutely nothing. He tried to have sex with me too, something I thought i wanted but again it felt so wrong. But he kept trying. Even though I wasn't vocal I still think about...
by Yesnomaybeso
Sat Jan 26, 2019 9:08 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Songs to help us move on and heal from limerence
Replies: 271
Views: 58844
Gender:
Australia

Re: Songs to help us move on and heal from limerence

I’m not sure how to embed vids but this song always makes me feel more positive. I hope it works for you too! Grateful Dead - Touch of Grey It must be getting early, clocks are running late Paint-by-number morning sky looks so phony Dawn is breaking everywhere, light a candle, curse the glare Draw t...