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by AnnieKaye9924
Sun Jan 17, 2021 8:07 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I need to make a change, I'm in pain
Replies: 16
Views: 323
Canada

Re: I need to make a change, I'm in pain

Hi. It’s so insane how we limerents have so many of the same thought processes & patterns. One thing that I have always struggled with is knowing what is reality & what is not? Is he mad at me for LC or is he disinterested or is he just living his life? I’ve been in a mess with a coworker fo...
by AnnieKaye9924
Sat Oct 31, 2020 12:03 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: New thing to obsess about
Replies: 3
Views: 339
Canada

Re: New thing to obsess about

Yes. 😂😂😂😬
by AnnieKaye9924
Tue Oct 27, 2020 10:38 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Lim in the time of Covid
Replies: 22
Views: 1234
Canada

Re: Lim in the time of Covid

I have a lot of the same feelings. This current episode for me has been about 7 years. In that time it has stolen so much from me in terms of peace and happy memories. I will also never leave my SO. Just want you to know you are not alone.
by AnnieKaye9924
Tue Oct 27, 2020 8:00 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: New thing to obsess about
Replies: 3
Views: 339
Canada

New thing to obsess about

I have been stuck in this current LE for years. There was mutual disclosure 2 years ago & we (mostly me) decided not to act on it & just be friends. This is a coworker, close friend, and we share an office. We see each other every day, text, talk about everything, eat lunch together every da...
by AnnieKaye9924
Fri Jul 24, 2020 12:45 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: The drama causes LE flares
Replies: 6
Views: 175
Canada

Re: The drama causes LE flares

Thank you for the kind words, L-F, as usual. I really think it’s time for me to go to therapy. I think some objective, real-time feedback on the thoughts would help me.
by AnnieKaye9924
Thu Jul 23, 2020 10:40 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: The drama causes LE flares
Replies: 6
Views: 175
Canada

Re: The drama causes LE flares

Cookie: thank you for the feedback & I agree with you. But for some sick, twisted reason it makes me happy that you think he is playing games. Maybe I am getting dopamine hits from the attention. Maybe as L-F posted I’m addicted to emotional pain. Maybe this anxious rollercoaster of limerence is...
by AnnieKaye9924
Thu Jul 23, 2020 11:45 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: The drama causes LE flares
Replies: 6
Views: 175
Canada

The drama causes LE flares

My situation continues with no good resolution in sight. Things lately had been going great with my LO....the feelings have been manageable & we have been able to keep it platonic. Of course COVID has us stressed out. We are teachers with an adjoining classes who share an office space. A few det...
by AnnieKaye9924
Thu Jul 23, 2020 11:23 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A giant mess and disclosure didn’t work
Replies: 4
Views: 1438
Canada

Re: A giant mess and disclosure didn’t work

Maybe you should divorce & start over fresh? Your husband does not sound stable or like a good partner. I agree therapy will be tremendously beneficial for you. Let the temp go & focus on you to determine your next course of action...with or without your SO. Best of luck to you.