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Search found 15 matches
- Mon Jun 14, 2021 3:58 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Anybody do Disclosure?
- Replies: 36
- Views: 1074
Re: Anybody do Disclosure?
I disclosed and it did not end my LE. What did address it was that I went no contact. I disclosed to my LO and got rejected. I then made the conclusion that I cannot be friends with my LO. Every interaction with her would just fuel my LE. I tried my best to "just be friends", but the LE ju...
- Mon Jun 07, 2021 8:13 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: The torture of NC/Instagram
- Replies: 2
- Views: 179
Re: The torture of NC/Instagram
And yet still some part of my brain sees this as worthwhile longing, like she holds some kind of key to my future, like she is someone I was meant to meet, and need to know. I hate this so much. I understand the pain! You know what you need to do and trust that you can do it. One of the steps to re...
- Mon Jun 07, 2021 6:53 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
- Replies: 22
- Views: 745
Re: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
I was fluid-bonded with the LO, but that as not made the recovery any easier. I did not disclose my feelings for her, although sometimes I wonder, whether I should have, during the affair. I have fantasized so many times of consummating the relationship with my LO. It drove me insane. I guess that'...
- Sun Jun 06, 2021 9:26 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
- Replies: 22
- Views: 745
Re: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
Wow. That must have been intense. Do you have an SO? I fantasize about having a beer with her, confessing everything, and transitioning into a solid friend zone. I have an SO. The "friend zone" was not an option for me. I truly believe if you are limerent for someone, you can't be "f...
- Sun Jun 06, 2021 1:48 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
- Replies: 22
- Views: 745
Re: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
Yes, DreamingBlue, it does get easier with time. I don't know if I could have done NC early in my limerence, now it's easier. You will stop looking for negatives in your wife, it's good anyway that you realise she is great. I can vouch for this too. My LO, although younger and more beautiful, doesn...
- Sat Jun 05, 2021 3:58 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
- Replies: 22
- Views: 745
Re: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
Wow I hope you're right. I'm one month NC. I made one mistake today by tagging her in a post by someone else I thought she'd want to see, but so far she hasn't noticed it or ackowledged it. Things havent' improved that much. I just miss the hell out of her, miss talking to her, and am wondering wha...
- Fri May 28, 2021 3:57 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
- Replies: 22
- Views: 745
Re: Thoughts/Rumination of LO
NC really is the magic bullet that will decrease the rumination. Went NC 6 weeks ago and I've reached the point where the ruminations are probably 10 minutes or less. She broke contact by wishing me happy birthday. We texted a bit that day (2 weeks ago), and the ruminations spiked a bit. But has ste...
- Sun May 16, 2021 9:06 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Been out of it for a year
- Replies: 10
- Views: 441
Re: Been out of it for a year
Does No Contact really put you on the path to recovery? I'm really happy that I'm no giving into temptation to reach out. But I want the ruminating to stop, and I want to desire my SO more. For me it has. What helps is that the ruminations become less intense and less frequent because there's no mo...
- Tue May 11, 2021 7:19 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Been out of it for a year
- Replies: 10
- Views: 441
Re: Been out of it for a year
Congratulations! I've only gone on No-Contact for a month now. I still have some limerent thoughts and ruminations. However, the vast majority of it is gone. And it's almost as if this long brain fog has lifted. I think I've gained a few IQ points through it. It's easier to focus, do work, read, and...
- Tue May 11, 2021 12:24 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Disclosure for Closure?
- Replies: 34
- Views: 1020
Re: Disclosure for Closure?
I think the ONLY true NC with her is through full BLOCKING on all social media, but that would be an aggressive, provocative act that would elicit a WTF? from her. Just pretending everything is fine, while deeply addicted to her, and having access is JUST not working. I am looking for an understand...