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by Thought Loop
Sun Aug 02, 2020 11:05 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

And... I think I'm done.

She did not answer the questions I'd asked (not big questions, could have been done with a sentence or a number), address anything in my email (at all), or give feedback on the material I shared.

Far as I know, she didn't even read the email.
by Thought Loop
Sun Jul 19, 2020 3:15 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question about disclosure
Replies: 15
Views: 1274
Gender:
Canada

Re: Question about disclosure

Wow. Good advice Icarion. Thank you so much for sharing!
by Thought Loop
Mon Jul 13, 2020 3:00 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

Thanks Cookie! I do not feel like I am doing great at all. The connection has such deep hurt it's exhausting.

Trying to be disciplined and not reactive, to see the end goal (professional civility and good will).
by Thought Loop
Sun Jul 12, 2020 9:41 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

Thanks Cookie.

I have a lot of cognitive dissonance around this.

Aaaand she's responded. Her timing is impeccable: right after I gave up all hope she would. Ha!

Eventually, this will peter out and vanish, and both of us will be good with it.

Win-win...!

:-)
by Thought Loop
Thu Jul 09, 2020 4:34 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

It doesn't matter if she is busy and I am obsessed, or if she consciously withholds.

She keeps teaching me.
by Thought Loop
Thu Jul 02, 2020 6:32 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: No contact? Well at least for today
Replies: 22
Views: 1232
Gender:
Canada

Re: No contact? Well at least for today

Wish, they're right, you (we, all of us) can't beat ourselves up too much for lapses. I just did one. Some are inevitable on the road to recovery. The temptation is there, it's powerful. And frustrating. I/we all just have to get back up, dust ourselves off and get back on the path. Eventually, it i...
by Thought Loop
Thu Jul 02, 2020 3:48 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

Thanks Acrobatica, and you are absolutely right. I'm being a bit tongue in cheek with the past life stuff. I don't see anything else to do but No Contact, not because it's the 'right' or morally justifiable thing to do, but because it's the only thing I can handle. Here's to staying on the path. I a...
by Thought Loop
Tue Jun 30, 2020 7:36 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

Trying to let go and deescalate to No Contact again.

On a greater spiritual level I try to remember how much positive she has done for me.
by Thought Loop
Sat Jun 27, 2020 3:15 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A strategy gone awry?
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Gender:
Canada

Re: A strategy gone awry?

Thanks for the reply Cookie!

Deleting the details here; they aren't important.

You were all right. I need to quietly deescalate and go No Contact.
by Thought Loop
Fri Jun 19, 2020 8:16 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: relapsed today
Replies: 56
Views: 1551
Gender:
Canada

Re: relapsed today

Her in particular? No, no, I wouldn't go that far. She does make me feel unimportant, but at this point, that's entirely fair. It hurt more when I fell from the focus of attention a few years ago. It plays into my own self-esteem issues. This was just about getting back on civil terms. I pushed too ...