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by Sara
Mon May 10, 2021 10:30 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: a video on Trans generational trauma and connection to LO
Replies: 1
Views: 42
Gender:
France

Re: a video on Trans generational trauma and connection to LO

Thank you for sharing your story. My current Lo is German and im Jewish. For sure he triggered something there although I am not myself from a family of Holocaust survivors (Sefardi). I had a lot of anger and hate when I met him because he was the first ever German person I spoke to. And i had to wo...
by Sara
Thu Apr 22, 2021 10:07 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Friends first, LOs second
Replies: 13
Views: 234
Gender:
France

Re: Friends first, LOs second

Good luck spadge for today!!! Birthdays are hard. You feel it will hurt them if you dont wish it. But whats the point of maintaining a contact with them? You dont owe her anything so yes you shouldnt send this text. My LOs birthday is in a few weeks and ive been thinking about it a lot - will i send...
by Sara
Wed Apr 21, 2021 8:56 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What exactly are men and women looking for when limerent?
Replies: 6
Views: 218
Gender:
France

Re: What exactly are men and women looking for when limerent?

I think originally there was a strong sexual desire from me, a crazy one like i didnt have before. That was cut short after 7months when he left the company. I was relieved because i knew it was a disaster going to happen. Few years later we reconnected and the desire was still there , not as strong...
by Sara
Sat Feb 20, 2021 11:27 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Why is limerence not a linear process?
Replies: 10
Views: 491
Gender:
France

Re: Why is limerence not a linear process?

Its not a linear process and it never ends
by Sara
Wed Dec 23, 2020 11:34 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: *~ Happy Holidays, one and all ~*
Replies: 8
Views: 325
Gender:
France

Re: *~ Happy Holidays, one and all ~*

Anyway I totally disgressed !!! Wish all the limerent community a happy and peaceful break in this mad world. 🙏🙏
by Sara
Wed Dec 23, 2020 11:32 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: *~ Happy Holidays, one and all ~*
Replies: 8
Views: 325
Gender:
France

Re: *~ Happy Holidays, one and all ~*

Hi cookie!! Thank you and happy holidays to you!! This year is crazy shit and its not finished... its been very stressful... i love planning and ive been totallylost. The only good thing this year is probably that I have nt seen my LO since March.. we still chat every day, few times a day , the freq...
by Sara
Tue Nov 03, 2020 1:04 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Need my life back
Replies: 24
Views: 1330
Gender:
France

Re: Need my life back

Im doing the same :( in the same situation!! Good luck its haaard!!! My le got manageable. Im happy with my husband and loves him. But i also fell hard for my LO constant checking of his and his wife social media, constant thoughts etc We became very close with lockdown and now chats every day. It h...
by Sara
Tue Oct 20, 2020 2:45 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: My emptiness to fill.. with what?!
Replies: 5
Views: 368
Gender:
France

Re: My emptiness to fill.. with what?!

Thank you JOHndeux your analysis really reasonates in me. I had a great childhood i think, parents emotionally stable Although they were very cold and dealing with their own issues They loved me and took care of me well, Always there for me but i don't remember being kissed and hearing i love you or...
by Sara
Tue Oct 20, 2020 10:40 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: My emptiness to fill.. with what?!
Replies: 5
Views: 368
Gender:
France

My emptiness to fill.. with what?!

Hi folks Some of you already know my story, i had 2 Le in my life the second one has lasted 5 yrs we were previous colleagues I became crazy about him. We lost touch and he reconnected. We are officially friends although we never met our respective partners (we are both married) and were texting way...
by Sara
Tue Sep 22, 2020 9:57 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Ending my Emotional Affair
Replies: 81
Views: 6545
Gender:
France

Re: Ending my Emotional Affair

So true maddie!!
To be honest I also dont love my LO and see no future with him!
Its just an animal attraction that became obsessive because it has been left unconsumed for too long and we both fueled it!

I can see our actions make us suffer or at least me