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I read this somewhere, but can’t find the source. The quote helps me to stop whenever I want to re-disclose. (The first disclosure was vague, but still shouldn’t have been done as I work closely every day with LO and want to keep my job.) “Yes, your feelings are strong and you are bursting to share ...

Oooof. That song makes me hopeful.

I want "permission" or at least understanding from her as to why I need to block her on social media. In the long run, friendship. As much as I am smitten, no I want to hear about her feelings for me. I want to remain in love with my wife. I want this fog of deception GONE. I think it's a...

mamasita wrote: ↑Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:41 pm I want that too. To NOT wake up and have him pop into my mind immediately.

^^^^^^^^THIS! Yes.

The pain is real, so take care of yourself as you would for any other grief. A while ago, LO said something that I thought was a statement on our friendship, cooling things off, but it actually had more to do with work needs. I was distraught, crying for days. I listened to breakup songs. Ate ice cr...

Haha! I caught Covid a few months ago. Didn't think about LO (at all) for a few weeks. But then I got better from Covid and the ole limerence came back. I think I need to find a new hobby. It was nice to find that my brain is capable of thinking of other things.

Ugh. Disclosure. LO and I are both married. I disclosed that I had a crush on him, but wanted to be professional. I did not disclose that I fantasize about him. I was hoping for rejection. That he would ghost me and make it easy. Well, he responded that he wanted to be a good friend. So there we are...

My LO did everything he could to get me back to meet ups, I eventually gave in. He was delighted - for a little while and then I believe he thought to himself ...she's back to meeting up - but really, I'm not that interested anyway.... I think he just wanted to best me and he succeeded. I have lear...

We had a very crazy passionate relationship that I put an end to because it was honestly taking its toll on me emotionally. It didn’t feel like a “normal” relationship. The highs were too high and the lows were too low. When I ended things with him that night this sense of peace came over my whole ...

Hello everyone, All valid points. A lot of what happened in our childhood, Some sort of imbalance crept in and left a mark in your life, right before you got limerent. @itry Interesting theory! 100% true for me. I’ve always had crushes, but broken trust is what likely led me to an all-consuming lim...