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by NotUseless
Wed Sep 30, 2020 3:20 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

...actually, the situation is so much better now. I admitted all to my husband who forgave me immediately. L Blackmail risk gone. Ex-LO can do whatever he damned-well likes and if he's alive, he gets done under revenge porn laws, if he's not, I take it out of his estate. I *still* care about LO, whi...
by NotUseless
Sun Sep 20, 2020 1:55 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

That's the thing. There is only one limerence forum not on reddit, and it would not take much to.put two and two together.
by NotUseless
Fri Sep 18, 2020 2:03 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

Oh I'm not punishing myself for having shared intimate images. It was inbelievably stupid, but I was under the spell of limerence at the time which I now know to be an extremely powerful delusion, and he took advantage. That said, I really do very much want this incredibly specific story removed fro...
by NotUseless
Thu Sep 17, 2020 11:01 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

Oh, absolutely no doubt that if he did either what he's threatened to (which is bad enough) he would be seen as a lunatic. He actually already is - he's put a lot of people offside. If he does what I suspect he wants to, which is to get revenge by either making public or sending to my husband the in...
by NotUseless
Wed Sep 16, 2020 2:48 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

Perhaps, but I know this guy well and none of you do. I know what he's capable of. You might not be able to work it out, but I can guarantee that if he read it, he would. He's already vengeful (hence the threats to released material imnediately prior to his own suicide) and I don't want to take the ...
by NotUseless
Mon Sep 14, 2020 1:57 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

The problem is that I can't delete my posts from this thread as I posted them anonymously. They are my words, I can do a stat dec owning them if need be. Please can those posts be deleted?

Can I get a vote below - can I request that my own posts here be deleted, even if posted anonymously?
by NotUseless
Sun Sep 06, 2020 4:23 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: The post-limerence embarrassment
Replies: 4
Views: 463
Australia

Re: The post-limerence embarrassment

I'm not even clear of my latest one and I'm so incredibly embarrassed about it. The one immediately prior is now my boss and that's fine, but then I didn't get quite as taken advantage of as in this latest episode. The worst thing with the latest episode was being able to see what's going on, recogn...
by NotUseless
Mon Aug 10, 2020 11:46 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.
Replies: 65
Views: 3794
Australia

Re: This forum is NOT a Safe Place.

Apologies for a post that is a bit out of sequence. I'm moving this over from the original thread simply because it would have been confusing to the OP. Theatre directors advise young actors to never take reviews personally; use anything that is useful for growth and ignore anything that seems wrong...
by NotUseless
Wed May 13, 2020 6:14 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I screwed up big time.
Replies: 50
Views: 29390
Australia

Re: I screwed up big time.

I've flagged the thread with a moderator. Hopefully they can delete it for me. :)

Thank you everyone.