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I am trying to find something that will make me sob as seems to be the only way to get rid of toxic crap that builds up in me every time I do the stupid and send LO a text message. Almost Home almost does it

I know the battle all too well. I think I am doing fine. I go through days, weeks, not yet months, of being OK. Then, out of the blue it comes roaring back. I have not cut off contact with her, but I try to refrain from contacting her unless there is a reason. We still maintain a professional relati...

My personal experience says limerence is definitely associated with depression—or perhaps depression is associated with limerence. I have been both depressed and limerent for as long as I can remember. I also believe both my limerence and depression are created by chronic insecurity which I attribut...

I did read a couple of books by Candace Pert. Since reading those, I made an appointment with a holistic physician and am considering acupuncture. I know the limerence, the stress of the pandemic, and work-related stress are literally killing me. I am amazed my immune system still works at all. I hi...

I am sure this has already been addressed and answered—probably more than once. However, I think it is therapeutic for me to write it out again. Perhaps I will eventually get tired of running around in circles. I have been hurting a lot lately because I haven’t had contact with LO in several weeks. ...

I resigned from my clinical job providing behavioral healthcare (i.e., therapy) in a community health center because I was so emotionally ill I did not believe it ethical for me to continue to practice. While I believe it was the correct decision to make, I was left with basically no self-confidence...

Thank you for the reply. I completed an assessment last week for a career coach I am working with. I got the results today. I guess I already knew what the results would be, but seeing them in writing was really hard. I cannot believe how this limerence thing has nearly completely destroyed me. I sc...

I could have written something close to what you wrote to somebody else. I know the answers; at least some of them. I am just not very good at self-compassion. I do well for a while and then I just have a slip and a fall. It is a process. Like learning to walk, there is a lot of falling and a lot of...

I guess I will reply to myself. I am feeling just so overwhelmed right now I am not sure what I am feeling. I started out OK today. Then I decided to go to Facebook. I went on the limerence "support" group that I am a member of. I read some posts and responded to a few posts. Then I read a...

I guess people push this no contact rule for a reason. I have not really had much contact with LO over the last few years. The only contact I have with her is through Facebook. Anyway, I just happened to open Facebook and see a post by her announcing that she is leaving her current job. Seeing that ...