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Search found 38 matches

by Teana
Wed Oct 28, 2020 12:57 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: New thing to obsess about
Replies: 3
Views: 386
Gender:
Austria

Re: New thing to obsess about

Do you have OCD?
by Teana
Fri Oct 23, 2020 1:11 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Problem + Solution
Replies: 22
Views: 1211
Gender:
Austria

Re: Problem + Solution

I dont think most of the LOs are manipulating you conciously. Most people like to believe they are good people and even if they give mixed signals, its more of a mirror of their own internal problems, unmet needs which they try to fullfill and we are willingly putting outselfs to be their sources. I...
by Teana
Thu Oct 22, 2020 11:20 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Hit the bottom
Replies: 2
Views: 325
Gender:
Austria

Hit the bottom

Was fine with NC, somehow reached acceptance I wont have him. Even through I was limerent 24/7, my emotions of pain were not strong, subsided. But what my LO started doing completelly left me destroyed. Started love bombing me and escalated his efforts to a peak... I am so stupid I thought he fell i...
by Teana
Tue Aug 04, 2020 7:35 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How did you go NC? How long until you felt some relief?
Replies: 5
Views: 577
Gender:
Austria

Re: How did you go NC? How long until you felt some relief?

It took years, but then, it took years of working out why I was attracted in the first instance. Know what matters most to you - it sounds like respect is important to you, so hold on to what you value. Oh no, years...if this is the case I think I got myself in big shit... .. i have 3 months most u...
by Teana
Mon Aug 03, 2020 7:51 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How did you go NC? How long until you felt some relief?
Replies: 5
Views: 577
Gender:
Austria

How did you go NC? How long until you felt some relief?

When starting no contact, did you explain your LO what you are doing or just stopped replying to messages? I have to go NC, because LO is a horrible person and treats me like trash. I do not want to explain him what made me upset, because he will try to lure me in. He thinks we are on good terms now...
by Teana
Sun Jul 19, 2020 10:53 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question about disclosure
Replies: 15
Views: 1274
Gender:
Austria

Re: Question about disclosure

My experience is a bit different. My LO also is my coworker. But before any disclosure, he invited me out for a date. Then he canceled and it left me crushed and confused. So I disclosed to him ( nothing about obssession, limerence extend) and he told me he wants to be my friend. We agreed to be fri...
by Teana
Fri Jul 17, 2020 11:45 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Limited contact - it’s hard :(
Replies: 23
Views: 1690
Gender:
Austria

Re: Limited contact - it’s hard :(

If the sex was bad, or disappointing, I KNOW it would end my LE. Immediately. But, if it was good, yeah. I would want more. But I would want more sex, not anything else. I don't want anything else from him. I understand what you mean and that it will certainly help you. Seems you already really fig...
by Teana
Fri Jul 17, 2020 11:22 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: LO birthday coming - how ?
Replies: 9
Views: 770
Gender:
Austria

Re: LO birthday coming - how ?

Depends on what you want to achieve. From your writing it seems like you are trying to still get closer to your lo?

If your goal is to get over your LO, then of course inviting her for a celebration is a bad move. In this case you should keep it short or not even say anything.
by Teana
Fri Jul 17, 2020 8:59 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A Rant
Replies: 43
Views: 1292
Gender:
Austria

Re: A Rant

I understand your frustration. It seems to be completely justified. Your wife seems not to consider your basic needs as a man and it is selfish of her. I know you tried to talked to her and she still refuses, im wondering if she is not afraid of you having an affair? Would she be ok with you having ...
by Teana
Thu Jul 16, 2020 6:39 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Limited contact - it’s hard :(
Replies: 23
Views: 1690
Gender:
Austria

Re: Limited contact - it’s hard :(

My LO is my boss so I think it’ll be a career ending move to disclose. No signs whatsoever that feeling are reciprocated plus he’s married for over 25 years (no kids) so I really do think he’s the old fashioned kind who wouldn’t consider a bit of fun on the side. I’d never ever wanted to be in a re...