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I looked up your posts JP54, very interesting read in the members section. Thanks a lot LF for you kind words. Do you mean my reviews on limerence books? They helped me tremendously even though I was past the worst of the LE. They helped me to understand the process and prevented me from falling in...

...what I'm trying to describe is two hell-bound souls hopelessly attached to each other through their mutual mental condition. You're right Peter. It's codependency alright. I have it with my SO and it's making our life miserable, but we're making a progress. At the same time i have been prone to ...

This is IMHO of course. Long video but full of shocking thruths for me. In short, childhood trauma or anxious attachment style sets us up for a life long codependent relationships and other addictive behaviours. She doesn't mention limerance per se, but me thinks it's a peculiar form of codependency...

Hi Spinnaker. Awesome song and art. I love it. I'm a big fan of Mark Knopfler.

....... I tried many times going NC, It seems when I'm forcing myself not to talk to him it causes me to more obsessively think of him. Currently my LO and I talk occasionally. For me this works better than forcably having a NC rule. I know if I wanted to I could text him and he'd respond. We have ...

Wow! Congrats. Was it avoidance of fantasy or dreaming about him that did that splendid effect for you?