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by IvB
Thu Nov 10, 2022 9:20 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: This limerence is really scary
Replies: 5
Views: 571
Czech Republic

Re: This limerence is really scary

Hi Rezz, I am sorry that you are going through this. I know what you feel, we all do. Let me just congratulate you on complete NC, that's not an easy thing. And I remember that at the beginning of my limerence I thought that surely this hell can't last long, a few months top - well, after 6 months I...
by IvB
Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:54 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: My Story
Replies: 8
Views: 434
Czech Republic

Re: My Story

Hello, Kris, welcome. Everything you say sounds painfully familiar. Walking the path to hell even though you know exactly that you shouldn't, pretty sure that even though my limerence is much better and I am almost not in contact with my LO, I would probably still walk the same path, given the oppor...
by IvB
Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:09 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Do you want to help with a study on limerence?
Replies: 13
Views: 1776
Czech Republic

Re: Do you want to help with a study on limerence?

Such a good question. I felt shamed when my therapist didn't take my limerence seriously, describing it as just a crush. My fantasising button is broken. I used to drift off to sleep creating all sorts of stories. Now? I'll try (because I know its a way for me to drift off half way thru), but I jus...
by IvB
Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:05 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: God damn relapse. With ONE picture
Replies: 11
Views: 836
Czech Republic

Re: God damn relapse. With ONE picture

Trying to give a little perspective here. Since I'm guessing it's not ALL of you all of the time, how much space does this part of you take up? We all wear/have different hats/masks/personas/alter egos, etc. We act differently in church than we would with friends at a party. We talk differently wit...
by IvB
Wed Sep 21, 2022 9:03 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: God damn relapse. With ONE picture
Replies: 11
Views: 836
Czech Republic

Re: God damn relapse. With ONE picture

What is it you are hoping to repair DB? I don't know!? I want to repair or shore up that part of me that is propelled, by need, towards others, almost always women. The part of me that longs, that needs to escape. That needs pure, sweet, oozing validation, from beautiful women. It's the part of me ...
by IvB
Sun Sep 11, 2022 1:24 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: God damn relapse. With ONE picture
Replies: 11
Views: 836
Czech Republic

Re: God damn relapse. With ONE picture

DB, relapses happen but the longer we go NC, the faster we can recover from those, I find. I hope it's the same for you and you can return to a livable state of mind soon.
by IvB
Sun Sep 11, 2022 1:19 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Feel like I'm going mad
Replies: 19
Views: 1236
Czech Republic

Re: Feel like I'm going mad

I definitely feel like my insecurities cause me to get into situations that I shouldn't be in. I think sometimes I feel worthless if I am not being told I'm beautiful, special etc etc. Im learning to be kind to myself and not look for that approval in others Same with me! It's very hard to learn th...
by IvB
Wed Jul 27, 2022 7:08 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Do you want to help with a study on limerence?
Replies: 13
Views: 1776
Czech Republic

Re: Do you want to help with a study on limerence?

Done! Good to see more awareness of this hell:)
by IvB
Mon Jul 11, 2022 10:58 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Limerence for a co-worker
Replies: 29
Views: 1892
Czech Republic

Re: Limerence for a co-worker

I hope you can keep doing the activities that you are doing. I also have to started doing a lot of stuff because of my LO but I keep going, mostly because it keeps me busy and thus gives me less time to think of LO. Gym makes me feel better about myself because I look better and maybe the endorphins...
by IvB
Sat Jul 09, 2022 1:35 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Do you feel you use unatainabilty to hate yourself?
Replies: 11
Views: 812
Czech Republic

Re: Do you feel you use unatainabilty to hate yourself?

Indeed. As if my life was dull without some suffering.