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by selkie354
Mon May 03, 2021 4:17 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Bordering on insanity this weekend
Replies: 33
Views: 810
Canada

Re: Bordering on insanity this weekend

mycorona, The best I advice I have is to focus back on how YOU feel not him. You can't control how he feels or if he cares. But you can make yourself not care, not easy but it can be done. Stay away from the meetup and try not think of if he is going or not, or missing you or not. None of that is in...
by selkie354
Mon May 03, 2021 4:19 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Bordering on insanity this weekend
Replies: 33
Views: 810
Canada

Re: Bordering on insanity this weekend

Hi DreamingBlue Yes I recently had a similair episode. After my LO got annoyed at me server an angry text and went NC with me (for all of 10 days), when I first saw the angry message from him I thought he's just annoyed he'll get over it in a week. But then after a few days of NC from him I essentia...
by selkie354
Sat May 01, 2021 10:25 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Self-Improvement -- Could It Ever Be Enough?
Replies: 4
Views: 147
Canada

Re: Self-Improvement -- Could It Ever Be Enough?

Good luck! It's not easy to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, but as they say nothing worthwhile is easy. You gotta take the chance while you have it. Hope it goes well!
by selkie354
Sat May 01, 2021 9:45 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Self-Improvement -- Could It Ever Be Enough?
Replies: 4
Views: 147
Canada

Re: Self-Improvement -- Could It Ever Be Enough?

Dude you gotta just go for it. She clearly has at least has some interest and you are single. Don't fight your inner nerd, clearly it is working for you and bringing you success and it doesn't seem to be a turn off for her. Nothing worse that someone who is pretending to be a cool guy past 18, just ...
by selkie354
Sat May 01, 2021 7:38 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How did you discover the word limerence?
Replies: 8
Views: 199
Canada

Re: How did you discover the word limerence?

I had heard of it years ago but more in the sense of just another word for infatuation vs love. I saw an article on it or something but it didn't go into depth about the psychological addiction or the severity of it. I believe I was aware of the word my first 2 episodes but didn't really put it toge...
by selkie354
Sat May 01, 2021 6:48 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Limerence at first sight?
Replies: 2
Views: 121
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Re: Limerence at first sight?

Can relate to this. I think we have similair patterns Struck. This LO I did not feel limerant for at first. When we met I didn't find him physically attractive and he didn't show any particular interest in me -it was a few months later when he showed interest that I got sucked in. Also like you the ...
by selkie354
Sat May 01, 2021 12:20 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Big brother is watching and other musings
Replies: 3
Views: 138
Canada

Re: Big brother is watching and other musings

Haha I get that add too! I know I looked into various different mental health things when coming to terms with this and I have noticed two new types of youtube ads that I didn't use to get: Online Therapy & Hard Liquor. The cynic in me finds that funny. But really its pretty terrible. Good luck ...
by selkie354
Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:53 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclosure for Closure?
Replies: 34
Views: 784
Canada

Re: Disclosure for Closure?

Hi Dreamingblue, One idea has Struck has hinted might be just backing off social media entirely. What is Social Media really giving you? Honestly its pretty terrible, I quit for a while (non limerence reason) and it was pretty great (got sucked back in with a certain group I am part of - fortunately...
by selkie354
Thu Apr 29, 2021 7:08 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclosure for Closure?
Replies: 34
Views: 784
Canada

Re: Disclosure for Closure?

Hi Dreamingblue I know you don't want to hear this right now. But I'm going to give you one more don't do it. I don't know you or your wife or your LO, but I hate to see someone walk into a wall of pain. 2 Possibilities here: your LO has some romantic feelings for you, your LO has no romantic feelin...
by selkie354
Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:40 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Single limerents
Replies: 5
Views: 177
Canada

Re: Single limerents

Can confirm does not magically disappear when not single. If you read the posts I think more of us are married than not. I will say if you can find a good one that new relationship glow should keep it away for a few years at least. But you have to watch out when that honeymoon period ends. Still not...