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Given that it's a part-time gig - leave the job, without question. The only way to get rid of limerence is to starve it and create as much distance between you and the LO as possible - 1) Delete chat messages/photos/records of conversations - everything 2) Block/delete the LO's contact information 3...

Good to hear. I'm glad you involved your wife and the young lady could see you are a committed man who honors his vows. Imo, she was looking for someone to replace her father, on a Freudian level. Not worth entertaining her wound-mate wounds and emotional baggage, or trying to rescue her. Simply no...

Are you intent on throwing away your marriage? Have you told your wife about your accidental meeting, and how you invited her out and now she has invited you out to dinner? I mean ......... Come on dude. Wake up. You have no business trying to figure her out, nor your last LO out when you haven't e...

Are you genuinely interested in talking with someone who is familiar with the industry you are in OR has the ego been activated because a young, pretty girl gave you a hug? Honestly, a bit of both - but I'm leaning towards the former and more importantly - I want to figure out her motive. I've deci...

Hello. Not sure if you are still married or not. But, if you are, then the answer to your question is simple. Rebound limerence does exist, as I have experienced it several times. It's along the lines of, well, ok, LO rejected me, so I will just find a replacement LO. I was a bit surprised to read ...

Hello Everyone, I realise this topic may fall outside the scope of limerence, but figured I'd throw it out there - it could be relevant in context to the ex-LO (AP) from last year. I was out with friends at a bar on NYE and was waiting in line outside the mixed-use restroom, when this woman approach...

Every situation is different, but it seems like there's a backstory here, with this person being your high school acquaintance. Regardless of the background, the only way you will move forward is complete NC - delete all contact info and/or block all communication as well. It takes some time for the...

It seems you have already jumped into the abyss - so it's all about self-awareness from this point on-wards.
Only you can pull yourself out.

Good luck!

L-F wrote: ↑Sat Dec 18, 2021 8:29 pm

virusbkk wrote: ↑Sat Dec 18, 2021 1:58 am I went on a lunch date with the woman,

Why? Like why man?

I would get off my high-horse and put a lid on the idealistic spiel.
If you want to vent, save it for your therapist.

If you can get a handle on the situation, without involving your spouse, I would fully endorse that as well. Forgive me if I've got it wrong, didn't you advertise for a fling and then fall limerent? Not exactly. I went on a lunch date with the woman, having zero expectations or even any desire for ...