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by Zsababy
Sat Jul 29, 2023 7:43 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Happiness - don't think limerents can find it
Replies: 17
Views: 727
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Re: Happiness - don't think limerents can find it

Ugh cross our that double negative. I meant "I didn't find meth"...etc but you knew that
by Zsababy
Sat Jul 29, 2023 7:41 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Happiness - don't think limerents can find it
Replies: 17
Views: 727
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Re: Happiness - don't think limerents can find it

I should say that I have fun with my partner, but rarely true joy. The joy I'm thinking of is attainable to me as I've had it with friends, so I know it's real.
by Zsababy
Sat Jul 29, 2023 7:33 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Happiness - don't think limerents can find it
Replies: 17
Views: 727
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Re: Happiness - don't think limerents can find it

In my limited use of meth, I didn't not find meth to give me the profound euphoria and bliss of limerance in the few times I did it. It did make me much more social- like can't stop talking lol. Very common. Limerance, though all -consuming, is more subtle. Meth has no subtlety whatsoever. It's a ve...
by Zsababy
Wed Jul 05, 2023 8:05 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I've been on the receiving end and it ain't pretty
Replies: 4
Views: 355
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Re: I've been on the receiving end and it ain't pretty

I can relate as I have had many "therapy" friendships and have been trying to end my codependent tendencies as I just attract these people's tendencies like magnets. I totally get the wanting more than you can give. I've been on both sides of that.
by Zsababy
Sat Jul 01, 2023 9:53 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How long has your current limerance been going on?
Replies: 4
Views: 256
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How long has your current limerance been going on?

I think I'm 2.5 years in. The thing is, I don't want to give it up because it makes me feel good but I know I've squandered a lot of time on fantasies. Time flies when you're deluded 🤣 Listening to an interview with him reminds me that I'm an obsessive fan, and I really don't like to think of myself...
by Zsababy
Thu May 18, 2023 7:16 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Fired Therapist
Replies: 180
Views: 9191
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Re: Fired Therapist

BTW, it's ok to post poetry. I'm pretty sure almost every limerant has written poetry to their LO. It's a time-tested outlet. I've written some to my LO. Thank god I have no means to send it to him!!!!!
by Zsababy
Thu May 18, 2023 6:43 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Fired Therapist
Replies: 180
Views: 9191
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Re: Fired Therapist

I too would say don't listen to your whackjob life coach. But I won't even pretend to know how to interpret signs in a bisexual courtship. Although, since she didn't have much of a reaction to your news of going away, is it possible that she's just a flirty person having fun? OTOH, maybe she's disap...
by Zsababy
Thu May 18, 2023 4:56 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How to deal with LOs lover?
Replies: 25
Views: 728
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Re: How to deal with LOs lover?

Sorry I kind of broke the flow; I was referring to the above issue of B coming to you to cry on your shoulder about LO. You don't need any reminders of LO.
by Zsababy
Thu May 18, 2023 4:50 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How to deal with LOs lover?
Replies: 25
Views: 728
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Re: How to deal with LOs lover?

This tactic might be super clumsy, but this reminds me of a conversation I had with my therapist about friends who want to use me as a therapist & who don't have great boundaries. The phrase we worked out (and this was a visualization for future interactions) was "I'm sorry you're feeling b...
by Zsababy
Mon May 15, 2023 2:37 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Narcissism in LE?
Replies: 16
Views: 408
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Re: Narcissism in LE?

Ok if you know you are limerent and presumably trying to beat it or manage it, isn’t that an inherently narcissistic experience? Regardless of what league the LO is in I guess by definition they are unattainable or otherwise you wouldn’t have the limerence because the relationship would be there. S...