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by StillLimerent
Thu Mar 23, 2023 6:40 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclosing: what I wished I knew
Replies: 6
Views: 349
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Re: Disclosing: what I wished I knew

I think if I was an LO & someone told me I represented their old wounds, I'd feel really weirded out knowing that someone was projecting all their baggage on me & not necessarily liking me for who I am. It kind of reminds me of being young & guys "falling in love" with me when...
by StillLimerent
Thu Mar 23, 2023 6:38 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclosing: what I wished I knew
Replies: 6
Views: 349
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Re: Disclosing: what I wished I knew

I disclosed before finding this site, that I can't change. Do I wish I hadn't disclosed? Absolutely. Why? Because limerence is where you objectify a person. This is a dehumanizing act. A question to all fellow limerents here, "would you mind being objectified?" If someone you liked, or di...
by StillLimerent
Thu Mar 23, 2023 6:32 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?
Replies: 28
Views: 937
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Re: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?

But now, I'm more focusing on writing just enough so I would feel I disclosed just what I wanted and not dig too deep. The letter can't be 50 pages long, so I have to choose what to include and what to leave out of the picture. And before I was trying to explain every single situation that went sou...
by StillLimerent
Wed Mar 22, 2023 4:12 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?
Replies: 28
Views: 937
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Re: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?

Okay, fair enough, but here's another question/scenario to ponder. Pick your favorite friend (could be family), then picture them being sent a letter by someone who doesn't care what your friend thinks. Picture your friends reaction to the letter. What would that look like? Do you think it fair tha...
by StillLimerent
Wed Mar 22, 2023 4:02 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Irony of LE
Replies: 3
Views: 290
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Re: Irony of LE

This hot-cold treatment is so familiar to me too! I'm so guilty of that! :-) My LO was behaving hot-cold, but I was too. Like L-F mentioned, I didn't like the feel and the heart/head battle I was experiencing. It was too much. Sometimes I thought that I was possibly my LO's LO because their behavior...
by StillLimerent
Wed Mar 22, 2023 12:25 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Is medication good for limerence?
Replies: 21
Views: 1039
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Re: Is medication good for limerence?

I've been on medications for sometime and then was going off them. About 6 months on and 6 months off. I didn't have much side effects from Wellbutrin and it worked well for me. Meds that have longer half-life are usually the easiest to stop taking. The downside is that it may take 4-6 weeks for the...
by StillLimerent
Wed Mar 22, 2023 12:02 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?
Replies: 28
Views: 937
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Re: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?

I think it’s great you’re working on the disclosure letter with your therapist. If you feel awkward reading the letter there’s likely some shame underlying that and that would be useful to excavate. Why are you feel shame? You say that you have had serial Limerence and there are no unifying feature...
by StillLimerent
Tue Mar 21, 2023 11:55 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?
Replies: 28
Views: 937
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Re: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?

I don't care what LO will think of my letter, Is this true? B-) Very good point! Well, yes and no :-) The limerent portion of my brain, of course!, cares, arghh! But the logical part understands that my limerent brain has a fantasy of my LO that doens't have much with reality. And limerent brain ca...
by StillLimerent
Tue Mar 21, 2023 4:40 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?
Replies: 28
Views: 937
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Re: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?

There is a thread here that is a place to write what you would write to them to disclose. It's a safe outlet. You can also write in a journal. Save yourself the embarrassment & feelings of rejection that you'll get when you get ghosted or a reflection in writing Thank you! I'm feeling a bit bet...
by StillLimerent
Sun Mar 19, 2023 5:48 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?
Replies: 28
Views: 937
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Re: Disclose and get unstuck from limerence limbo?

Disclosure puts the limerence on the other person. Regardless if whether or not the LOs behavior contributed to the limerence, limerence is about something that needs attention in the sufferer. Thank you you Jupiter Taco! Yes, very true, limerence is all about us, the limerents. I keep working with...