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Search found 16 matches

by HenrySilver
Wed Sep 27, 2023 7:13 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Question about jealousy
Replies: 32
Views: 3720
United States of America

Re: Question about jealousy

I had a big issue with jealousy as well. My LO had become extremely close with a mutual male friend/coworker. They would go out to lunch together daily (without inviting anyone else from our group of friends), hang out in each other’s offices all the time, go out for drinks after work, etc. I never ...
by HenrySilver
Mon Jul 31, 2023 4:00 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: LE update
Replies: 2
Views: 249
United States of America

Re: LE update

Good question. I don’t know if there was anything I was avoiding. I suspect part of the reason I fell limerent was because of the stage of life I was in at the time LO and I became friends. My wife and I had just had our second kid. As for any new parents, all our attention was focused on our kids. ...
by HenrySilver
Thu Jul 20, 2023 6:17 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: LE update
Replies: 2
Views: 249
United States of America

LE update

Hello all, I haven’t checked the forum in a while. My limerence is finally starting to fade. I’m cautiously optimistic. My relationship with my wife has improved dramatically. We went to couples therapy for a few months. And while I never disclosed my limerence, the therapy was still productive. We ...
by HenrySilver
Tue May 16, 2023 6:14 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I'm new going no contact
Replies: 4
Views: 263
United States of America

Re: I'm new going no contact

I am going on about 2 months of no/minimal contact. I’ve been avoiding lunch/other events with mutual friends when my LO is attending, keeping mandatory encounters at meetings to “hello” and “see ya”. I’m really feeling the withdrawals. To make things worse, my LO just told me she is applying for a ...
by HenrySilver
Mon May 01, 2023 9:12 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Loneliness & limerance
Replies: 22
Views: 713
United States of America

Re: Loneliness & limerance

I’ve also been trying to understand where this limerence comes from. As a child, my parents were never around. They were always working. They were never the type to instill confidence or positive reinforcement with me or my siblings. But despite that, I think I had a pretty healthy childhood. I was ...
by HenrySilver
Fri Apr 14, 2023 6:57 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Thoughts?
Replies: 93
Views: 12618
United States of America

Re: Thoughts?

GOLO, I’m in a similar situation. I’ve done and thought the same things as you. My LO is a close friend and coworker. My limerence was at its worst a few months ago, and I feel like I’m in the recovery stage. I still look over my shoulder to see if she’s in her office. My heart still jumps when I se...
by HenrySilver
Mon Mar 13, 2023 1:41 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Cautiously optimistic
Replies: 2
Views: 232
United States of America

Cautiously optimistic

Hello all, It’s been about 2 years since the post-glimmer phase of my LE started. After two years of panic attacks, depression, anxiety, and many therapy bills later, I’ve felt the first sense of relief from limerence during the last couple of weeks. Minimal contact was extremely difficult because i...
by HenrySilver
Mon Feb 13, 2023 5:27 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I'm exhausted
Replies: 11
Views: 556
United States of America

Re: I'm exhausted

Welcome! I am in a similar boat. LO is a coworker. It is exhausting. I only recently started coming to terms with the fact that we will never have that close relationship I yearn for. We still interact due to mutual friends, but every interaction just seems forced and superficial. I recognize it’s m...
by HenrySilver
Wed Feb 01, 2023 4:36 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Tips for maintaining NC and fend off ruminating?
Replies: 1
Views: 218
United States of America

Tips for maintaining NC and fend off ruminating?

Hello all, I’ve been trying to go minimal contact for about 2-3 months now. I’ve also been in therapy. Things are much better than they were a year ago, but I’m still struggling with urges to reach out to my LO. (We work together). About once a week, I end up caving in and reaching out to her. Altho...
by HenrySilver
Sat Jan 14, 2023 1:27 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Progress reports?
Replies: 18
Views: 679
United States of America

Re: Progress reports?

Happy new year, all. It’s good to hear everyone seems to be doing well. I’ve been minimal contact for about 2.5 months. No contact is difficult because we work together, are close friends, and have several mutual close friends. There have been a couple of “relapses” when I reached out. I tried not t...