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I feel so bad that I’ve lied to her about having problems with my girlfriend and it’s all in text message too so that brings out another anxiety if my girlfriend found out she’d be distraught and she doesn’t deserve that. Sorry to read this story, Sufferingsoul53. Sometimes guilty feelings have a p...

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YES. I wish I had more brainpower at the moment to reply to this...but YES. I agree 100% with this thought of yours. I'd rather be without a man if that is the man I would age alongside.

One does not need to be an 'expert' on psychology, spirituality, neuroscience, etc, to know there's a difference in the two [genuine desire vs ego]. All you have to do is sit quietly and ask yourself. Not me. Not an expert. Your intuition. Your higher self (or God if religious). Just sit, and liste...

Hi L-F! This is a great question to ponder regarding happiness. I enjoyed reading this thread as I have been curious of this quest for happy that plagues many. I have been filled with joy both as a limerent and non-limerent. I prefer the term joy over happy. Happy can be superficial/topical...like i...

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I am glad you are sleeping better, Marko. The depression will pass. It is great that you even can state you are depressed. That is a feat some never get to. I used to pretend I wasn't depressed because it made my family uncomfortable. In general, people feel comfy with happy even fake happy. Most do...

I feel your pain. I have been there. I did the happy birthday text last year. For whatever this is worth, it added nothing to the rest of my existence, but in that moment...that buzzy time (when reality was warped) it felt amazing to receive any---I mean ANY response. He didn't send me any bday gree...

I know when glowing, the LO's seem pretty nice, but also I see their bad sides . The one who couldn't get her BF to marry her--he saw what I saw and she's nice, but not wife material . This last one, I don't even idealize her. She seems more close to that rescue, mid life crisis part again--an atte...

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