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Just wanted to have a ramble, I hope nobody minds. Please do feel free to share any perspective/insights, I love to read responses. I'm limerent for a best friend (realistically not a suitable match romantically but wonderful to have as a best friend). I have a long term partner (who is an amazing p...

But don't let my babble put you off exploring your sexuality if you haven't already. I have no idea where you are at with this. On the other hand, I completely understand the madness limerence brings. What I'd like all SOs to understand is that the limerent self (LS) is PAINED by it. Limerence isn'...

From my perspective, people who marry their LOs are fickle and fake, never really committing for the long haul. If anyone reading this is chasing that high, don't get married. I’m not sure if I agree, but then again I have a lot to learn about limerence and the way it really affects us and twists o...

Does euphoric love exist? Only short term. Many have had affairs with their LO or married them but few stay together imo. Why? Because people fall for the limerence is love narrative. Love is hard work. It's staying with someone when things aren't rosy (cancer, car accidents, etc). Love endures all...

It sounds like you have a good reality of what's going on and what could happen if you left your partner. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else but maybe is there any way you can seek more support from your partner and other friends about the deaths you've experienced? Oh and f...

I believe I have limerence for a best friend. But I also love my partner and don’t want to break up, we’ve been together for 7 years. He is a wonderful man and I know we are so much better suited realistically than me & LO. I love him and we have a healthy, fun & loving relationship. There a...