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Search found 23 matches

by Keater
Thu Aug 10, 2023 12:29 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: How obvious are you?
Replies: 2
Views: 286
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How obvious are you?

Do you ever wonder how obvious your limerence is? Sometimes I feel mega paranoid that everybody can see the blush that enters my cheeks from when he looks at me, or can tell that by volunteering I’m only doing it because of him. I have lost my objectivity since I am too close and thoughts are overwh...
by Keater
Thu Aug 10, 2023 12:18 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Narratives
Replies: 3
Views: 235
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Re: Narratives

Hello! I feel I’m mixed. I know part of it is ego, and very much so. But the part of me that looks for things like this does stem from a lack of intimacy in my marriage. I don’t feel physically or sometimes emotionally wanted, so it becomes an internal challenge. Can I make them want me? If they do,...
by Keater
Mon Feb 13, 2023 9:31 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Progress reports?
Replies: 18
Views: 662
United States of America

Re: Progress reports?

Wow the power of the human brain huh? Even with an NC it still takes years to calm down. Isn’t that something?! Progress… It has been worse lately. Mostly a desire to see him, talk with him. I’m planning things to day, offered to make a meal, stopped by for a project, send a message about a game on ...
by Keater
Fri Feb 10, 2023 8:23 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: I'm exhausted
Replies: 11
Views: 556
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Re: I'm exhausted

Hugs. I’m with you on the complete exhaustion. My post next to yours says “sigh” lol It’s a lot. It’s such a heavy load on the mind, and it’s not like we don’t have other things to think about! Plus you also can’t really NC unless you switch jobs. Do you see him a lot at work or can he be somewhat a...
by Keater
Fri Feb 10, 2023 7:56 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Sigh
Replies: 0
Views: 321
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Sigh

Feeling closer to wanting to NC I went to his house today. And talking about work stuff. He is so good looking. I wanted to kiss him. My heart had so many palpitations. He affects me physically!! And this has been such a physical attention on my part. It is what got my brain thinking. He is nice to ...
by Keater
Sun Jan 22, 2023 4:25 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Progress reports?
Replies: 18
Views: 662
United States of America

Re: Progress reports?

I feel like my attraction is obvious, so obvious in fact that everybody around me knows exactly what I am thinking. I also don’t have a great poker face. I go over a lot of things with my therapist. She tells me that people can’t see it, even though I feel it. And we talk about the things I do, and ...
by Keater
Tue Jan 17, 2023 4:03 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Ever wonder if you're somebody else's LO?
Replies: 15
Views: 734
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Re: Ever wonder if you're somebody else's LO?

For sure. One guy I barely knew tattooed my name on his arm, and spelled it incorrectly. Mega creepy. Another guy I was friends with, before he proposed to his now wife, and it had been quite a while since we had even hung out and we weren’t as close, he came around to like see if we had a chance? H...
by Keater
Tue Jan 17, 2023 3:50 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Progress reports?
Replies: 18
Views: 662
United States of America

Re: Progress reports?

Progress. Well I see a therapist regularly. Like maybe every 3 weeks or so. I think that helps. I still see and talk to LO often. Send him stupid messages. Take him dinner. Volunteer for shit for the chance to see him. I’ve actually kind of been opening up to him a little more. He’s in a position th...
by Keater
Tue Jan 17, 2023 3:35 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Groomed to be limerent
Replies: 51
Views: 1288
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Re: Groomed to be limerent

Wouldn’t telling somebody they aren’t being gaslit, be kind of like gaslighting them in a way? Just a thought as I was reading above. I often think about how I became limerent. I had a few close calls with ppl much older than me (teacher, other inappropriate ppl), and I was SUCH an easy mark. I have...
by Keater
Sun Oct 17, 2021 4:41 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Meditation Visuals
Replies: 3
Views: 279
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Meditation Visuals

I have responded really well to meditation in the past, and still have some very nice memories/feelings from old therapy sessions with guided meditation. Stumbling around on YouTube the other day came up with this video below. It was very nice, and has given me helpful visuals in working towards rel...