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OCDLimerent: If there is no interaction with her, I don't think we can speak of authentic Limerence, as a "toxic" type of relationship. How do you get that dopamine rush, and those lows, if you don't receive the slightest signal, real or imagined, of reciprocity? ? It's just a fantasy, an...

Zsababy wrote: ↑Mon Feb 14, 2022 8:58 am Sorry to make it about me but I thought L-Fs comment was for both of us

No problems from me

Hey OCDL, I had to look her up. Never heard of her. So my initial response was ‘you’ve never heard of her?! But she’s so gorgeous, and talented, and amazing, and perfect… and when you looked her up, why did you not say ‘my God she’s so hot, I totally get what you’re talking about’?! Gurrrrl! Give m...

And that’s not enough for me. Have you talked to your wife about this? Is this something you can bring up? Could you ask for an open marriage? When one partner wants sex but doesn't give or get it, I believe the other partner is in the exact same boat. We always think it's one sided. Attraction to ...

L-F wrote: ↑Sun Feb 13, 2022 9:26 am
Hey OCDL, I had to look her up. Never heard of her.

So my initial response was ‘you’ve never heard of her?! But she’s so gorgeous, and talented, and amazing, and perfect… and when you looked her up, why did you not say ‘my God she’s so hot, I totally get what you’re talking about’?!

Okay, ima going all L-F'ey on y'all lol... if you don't know what that means, ask someone who has been here awhile. Excuse me OCDL while I go off topic. Marriages/LTRs. People need to get a grip, they are not , and never will be, perfect. I think people fall for the fairytale of 'happy ever after' ...

Zsababy wrote: ↑Sun Feb 13, 2022 7:15 am I'm so sorry!! I accidentally hit the "report post" button! I didn't know what it was. I told them in the info part. I hope this doesn't cause problems.

Not to worry

Zsababy wrote: ↑Sun Feb 13, 2022 1:54 am Oh Lord can I relate to the lack of passion! Of course my fantasy life is filled with intense passion. I think that's a big cause: boredom & lack of desire.

Yes sounds likely to me.

Zsababy wrote: ↑Sat Feb 12, 2022 7:52 am Btw you can talk to me any time about this. I can totally relate & am looking to discuss my problem with people in the same boat.

Thanks so much same goes for you!

This is the second post like this that I can relate to. I too have a celebrity crush and it's all-consuming. My psychiatrist isn't sure if it's OCD related (especially the intrusive thoughts) or if it's low-level mania (I'm bipolar) with a dash of hypersexuality. But I too have pictures on my phone...