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Oh, I see you babysit one. But it is good to have a pet around you all day, first thing when you get up. Just my well-intentioned advice lol

This might be terrible advice, but I highly recommend a pet for depression and isolation in general. No, it won't cure your limerance, but it might give you some sense of nurturing. Dogs give unconditional love. My rabbit got me through some pretty bad times. Otherwise, I was just alone with my thou...

I apologize for not getting the full story, but I'm slightly confused...you're in marriage therapy but the divorce is definite? Also, I forget what makes the LO off limits. Is she married/straight/uninterested? Is there no hope there at all? Yeah, going NC seems pretty impossible, given. Is it prema...

There are even a couple therapists in SF who use therapy pigs. Can you imagine being in a pit of despair and then a pig walks in the room?

Oh, well, there's your answer! You can get through one month. And six months isn't really that long. So far, I'd say it doesn't warrant changing jobs just yet. Her going away for a year is the best possible outcome. It will give you a test to see whether or not her absence helps your depression or n...

That said, I hope that stupid life coach didn't give you too much of a negative start to same sex relationships so much that it heavily colors your sense of a future with a woman/women. Hopefully, with this new therapist (or other means) you can do some kind of detox so you can get a fresh start in ...

Perhaps framing gender & sexual orientation issues as a problem to solve is the problem. You are free to go in whatever direction your intuition & desires take you. Don't think of there being a "right answer" to what orientation you are or are not but think of it as an adventure to...

This might be stating the obvious, but if you're not ready to tell your whole story yet, you can always ask us general questions or share other thoughts. Even if you're not ready, that doesn't have to preclude other posts. Just thought I'd mention it.

Yes, this most definitely is a safe place to express your feelings & experiences. I've even made a post about sharing embarrassing experiences. It's very therapeutic to have a place where we can talk freely about a problem which can be embarrassing and difficult to talk about, plus most people j...

I guess you might want to weigh the job perks & monetary/career benefits with the benefits of getting away from your LO. I forget, how long has it been, this limerance?