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I spoke to a few men on a one-to-one basis, and most, if not all that I spoke to seem to know limerence all too well

Those that have known me a while here know I am involved with a men's charity called the ManKind project where we run experiential weekends to help men become the best versions of themselves. A few readers from here have taken a leap of faith to do the weekend and benefited hugely. This weekend I st...

this is a tough one and likely not much is going to help you make sense of your homoerotic feelings for your best friend - btw nothing wrong with that and maybe you are bi? limerence is the mother of all distraction, what a wonderful way to avoid the such painful feelings of grief - so in part its a...

yoguisan wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 2:52 pm why now?

limerence is the mother of all distractions, what are you distracting yourself from?

What baffles me is why surgical/clinical doctors spend so much time studying and very little of it on nutrition. Backwards if you ask me. You'd think focussing on prevention is better than focussing on the cure :-?? Maybe doctors and big pharma dont want a healthier population? Call me a cynic 8-} ...

A significant component of jealousy comes from evolutionary psychology, to do with mate guarding and the protection of resources to give offspring the best chance of survival.

Its hard to overcome some of these deeply imprinted drives that have evolved over thousands of years.

Maybe people are just not ready yet to come out of the shadows about the Limerence. That seems odd though, because other additions seem willing to talk about. Maybe there is something taboo about being addicted to a person? Yet it’s something most of us can relate to

The trouble is that when we are in the mania of Limerence, it’s very hard for us to see that what we are doing is projecting our unmet needs onto our LOs. I didn’t listen to people that told me not to disclose, and it’s only through much work and deeper reflection that I now realise that it didn’t a...

Great post. I describe limerence as a form of psychosis. Why its not in the DSM baffles me.