limerence.net

I haven’t seen LO face to face since November 2019. I have saved 9 photos of LO over the years. I would periodically delete in the effort to ‘get to that point’ where I didn’t need to look at his picture. Honestly I still do look but it’s occasional and not a compulsion. I don’t delete because I kno...

So he’s crazy doesn’t mean it’s this specific diagnosis we can assign him from afar. There’s a checklist that you can’t just make vague connections to to fit LE.

No.

We conflate too much with limerence because we’re all aware of this lesser addressed experience and wanna pinpoint it in situations all the time.

Marko, I think people mostly have the idea that you have an issue (ie limerence), you overcome it, and then suddenly..one day..your troubles are gone and you’re happy and fulfilled. Getting better isn’t as glamorous as it’s imagined to be! =)) (-| so I sympathize! You always seem very clear about wh...

Good luck with the move and a renewed sense on life. As long as you are doing things for you - you will be okay. Ripping the bandaid off is painful and can feel unbearable but life really does go on. It will help that you don’t have the option to backtrack. I admire your choice!

Biden’s negative!

Yes - let me just repost my signature here: “No good has ever come from feeling guilty neither intelligence, policy, nor compassion. The guilty do not pay attention to the object but only to themselves and not even to their own interests, which might make sense, but to their anxieties.” -Paul Goodma...

Is there any feasibility of a feature where members can remove posts from their own threads? We can delete our own posts and threads (until there is a response). Is it possible to have a feature to delete any post on our OWN thread?? If it’s our thread, it’s our narrative anyway. We obviously wouldn...

Anyway, what this drama triangle has convinced me to do is to see what else lays there outside of LimNet. I think that now that I am fortunate enough not to be in the grips of limerence (at this moment, at least) perhaps what I need to look into is served better by other communities. PM me if you f...

True, didn’t know thRead existed..now that I do, next time (I read something awful)!