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Search found 96 matches

by selkie354
Wed Apr 28, 2021 8:57 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Disclosure for Closure?
Replies: 34
Views: 1020
Canada

Re: Disclosure for Closure?

I really don't think disclosing is the best plan here. A good chance she could take it the wrong way. Also if you are coworkers you risk an awkward situation at work - you can't be sure she won't tell others. Truly ask yourself if you aren't just doing this holding out for the chance that she will a...
by selkie354
Wed Apr 28, 2021 12:27 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Single limerents
Replies: 5
Views: 260
Canada

Re: Single limerents

Hi Struck, Have experienced both. My first LE was when I was in university and he had a gf and I was single. We were friends and confided in each other, messaged a lot, studied late nights together etc. His gf was long distance at the beginning. Then she came back... Hurt to see them together. Ultim...
by selkie354
Tue Apr 27, 2021 9:07 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: LE Daughter advice
Replies: 3
Views: 129
Canada

Re: LE Daughter advice

Sadly I don't think pointing out how bad he is will work. Agree with mamasita, If she's still hung up on him it will only make her defensive and create distance. I think all you can do is be as supportive as you can (within reason - don't try to house the deadbeat guy) and let her know she is loved ...
by selkie354
Fri Apr 23, 2021 6:58 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Struggling to get over my LO
Replies: 6
Views: 296
Canada

Re: Struggling to get over my LO

Hi L72, I think this is great news (the new girl). I would just go with it. There would be no expectation of exclusivity at this point anyways. Just see where it leads :) I don't think you need to overthink your limerence here with this. For now you are just seeing if there is a connection - I think...
by selkie354
Thu Apr 22, 2021 12:21 am
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Friends first, LOs second
Replies: 13
Views: 407
Canada

Re: Friends first, LOs second

Hi Spadge, Sorry today was hard. I can relate to this, just wanting to be friends b/c you like them as a person too but the attraction gets in the way and messes with everything. It can also be isolating when a SO just doesn't understand our pain. There are those of us who do though. It is real, and...
by selkie354
Mon Apr 19, 2021 3:27 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: What exactly are men and women looking for when limerent?
Replies: 6
Views: 320
Canada

Re: What exactly are men and women looking for when limerent?

Hi John, This is an interesting theory. I am very surprised that men's fantasies might be more about caring than sex. For me it has run the gamut. For sure a sexual component in there. Initially, I didn't really care at all and it was about winning the game of attraction and validating myself. Now I...
by selkie354
Sat Apr 03, 2021 3:29 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Intrusive thoughts
Replies: 13
Views: 568
Canada

Re: Intrusive thoughts

Agree with IvB, I think the anger is normal. I think it a step in processing the rejection, you might want to read about the 5 stages of grief. In a way getting over a limerent episode is not that different from a normal breakup a lot of emotions to cycle through. I have also experienced some justif...
by selkie354
Thu Apr 01, 2021 8:28 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A Short Story
Replies: 3
Views: 287
Canada

Re: A Short Story

Thanks mycorona, I am doing better. Been a low drama week. Hopefully things start looking up for you soon.
by selkie354
Thu Apr 01, 2021 2:19 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: A Short Story
Replies: 3
Views: 287
Canada

Re: A Short Story

Very beautiful mycorona. Really captures how it feels
by selkie354
Wed Mar 31, 2021 3:40 pm
Forum: Limerence 101
Topic: Would love to hear how wrong that voice was
Replies: 13
Views: 579
Canada

Re: Would love to hear how wrong that voice was

In my second episode I was convinced my volatile LO was the man of my dreams and that he would be a better match for me than my caring stable long term live in boyfriend. I went so far as to break off my relationship. I got lucky and dodged a bullet in that my LO actually got back with his ex at the...