These are really great steps Phoenix. I think it is wonderful that you took the time to write them down.
Sending you love and strength!
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Search found 81 matches
- Mon Jun 29, 2020 5:54 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Steps I am taking.
- Replies: 41
- Views: 4359
- Sun Jun 28, 2020 5:02 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: DO NOT RESPOND TO NODAYDREAMING
- Replies: 57
- Views: 3990
Re: DO NOT RESPOND TO NODAYDREAMING
I have been thinking a lot about this turn of events. I always liked NDD's posts and perspective. I thought his advice of simply - not daydreaming about LO - to be overly simplistic and a little like Nancy Reagan's Just Say No campaign. The whole reason most of us are on here is because we are torme...
- Fri Jun 26, 2020 3:30 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Lost my Dog
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1108
Re: Lost my Dog
I’m so sorry Idi. Losing a loved one is always hard.
- Thu Jun 25, 2020 3:24 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Doing whats right
- Replies: 4
- Views: 651
Re: Doing whats right
Dear Mezzer: I was very much in your space two years ago. My two cents? Tell your wife exactly these things. If you cannot tell her easily, then go to marriage counseling so that you can tell her there. Make sure you have this discussion fully and give her time to process this and understand her rea...
- Thu Jun 25, 2020 3:38 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Hijacked and failing
- Replies: 15
- Views: 1210
Re: Hijacked and failing
Cookie:
Just sending you love and good thoughts. You always have such good things to say on this forum.
Lately I've been thinking that I've intellectually understood limerence for a long time, but my emotional self still hasn't fully caught up.
Just sending you love and good thoughts. You always have such good things to say on this forum.
Lately I've been thinking that I've intellectually understood limerence for a long time, but my emotional self still hasn't fully caught up.
- Thu Jun 25, 2020 3:28 am
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Problems with suggested "healing steps"
- Replies: 8
- Views: 775
Re: Problems with suggested "healing steps"
.. it feel as if im chucking away a third of my life. I just had a long conversation with an old friend. We were "limerent" for the same LO, me for 15 years, her for 10, overlapping for about 5. And we talked about this exactly, feeling such a deep sense of loss when we stopped working wi...
- Mon Jun 22, 2020 4:50 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: relapsed today
- Replies: 56
- Views: 1551
Re: relapsed today
Maddie: I have written about NOT an LO, which was my first sexual experience after separating from my ex. That very short six week relationship was indeed a conflagration. And when I look back, I see that level of sex would have been unsustainable and was coming from a great deal of pain on both of ...
- Sat Jun 20, 2020 5:25 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Why do we put up with this?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 579
Re: Why do we put up with this?
Why is everyone telling us to put up with SOs and make it work with them when the truth is our limerence is a huge sign that our marriage/relationship isn't working in the first place. I agree. It likely is a sign that your relationship is not working in the first place. But it is also very likely ...
- Fri Jun 19, 2020 5:35 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: relapsed today
- Replies: 56
- Views: 1551
Re: relapsed today
Maddie: I'm sorry this feels like a relapse, but its nice to have positive interaction with anyone. I am struck by you saying that you need to have no expectations. I agree in a general way. We should probably have no expectations of any person and let them be fully who they are and appreciate what ...
- Thu Jun 18, 2020 5:06 pm
- Forum: Limerence 101
- Topic: Theory of limerence - Self-blindness/Other-blindness
- Replies: 2
- Views: 542
Theory of limerence - Self-blindness/Other-blindness
As I have taken a deep dive into healing, I am constructing my own theory for understanding limerence/narcissism/echoism/toxic relationships. I am an academic, and though psychology is not my area of expertise, I have done a lot of research and reading over the past several years to understand where...