@DelusionGirl exactly the same, after all those emotions I feel none most of the time now. A bit of sadness but no lows and certainly no highs, happiness, anything. I hope that it's just a phase and like from a flu I need to recover before going back to the gym, same with this, need to recover first before I start feeling again.
I too fear this happening again and am resolved not to develop this kind of intimate conversations with any man again (I have an SO so that's the correct thing to do, after all).
@DreamingBlue "What I miss now, really, is having my #1 overriding feeling and thought be: "my wife is incredible and a lifetime isn't enough time to love her." - Omg same here! I had this feeling so strong before limerence, I used to tear up imagining me and SO old and him dying and thinking that even the next 50 years together won't be enough. Now I really really want this feeling back