Cookie, I know you're referring and addressing the OP, but just as a suggestion, since I'm assuming you experienced your soul waking up too, is it possible to go beyond LO and look at the source of that anger?
Also, and shoot me if you will, can you reread your entire last post by replacing LO with Cookie? It might just help to expand your awareness. It doesn't prove anything. If you find yourself 'trembling with anger' with this suggestion, perhaps try it with someone else's post. Switch LO with the OP to get a different perspective. But choose an OP where you know their background story.
I feel, we often write about our other half, of self.
And.
I feel, what we complain about is what we become. Just my opinion.