Yes, he was initially nice and charming in the beginning, but the Principal got involved from his SO having a problem with the friendship. I think the police were involved once because it was after several hugs and he just couldn't deal with that anymore, for fear of getting caught. Fortunately, the other times that I engaged with him resulted in no other principal or police intervention.L-F wrote: ↑Sun Aug 08, 2021 10:23 pmI recall him being nice which is why AMA fell for him. Then he wasn't nice because he wasn't limerent and wanted to be left alone. So much so he got the Principal involved and I think the Police involved too. When I was someone's LO I too wasn't playing nice with them when I felt scared out of my wits from being stalked (we worked at the same establishment and I didn't like the way he'd tell me what car I drove, where I parked it, what time I left work or turned up, or even asking if the man he saw me with was my husband, had I been on holiday because he hadn't seen me around, etc - all of which was none of his business). In a way I'm glad I didn't tell SO otherwise he'd have gone and ... well... probably want to do what most men want to do to other men who dribble all over their wives.
My curt and non-approachable demeanor was very much warranted. Some LOs live in fear.
Although, I disagree with your statement of him "wanting to be left alone", as that is an assumption on your part. If your reaction to being "stalked" was scared out of your wits, then that isn't necessarily applicable to everyone.