Sam Vaknin is one of the top experts on narcissism IMJ
His talk is not one of the most upbeat when it comes to treating limerence and love addiction
Still worth a view
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a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
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Re: a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
Thanks for posting this, David.
I had thought about doing the same, but then forgot.
I've been watching several of his videos recently and it's been very interesting and insightful to learn the psychology behind the behaviors, on all sides (LO, LS, SO, etc)
I had thought about doing the same, but then forgot.
I've been watching several of his videos recently and it's been very interesting and insightful to learn the psychology behind the behaviors, on all sides (LO, LS, SO, etc)
Never give up! Keep moving forward, no matter what.
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Re: a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
I'm wondering if I was a closet love addict all these years. It's so strange. Meeting my sweet girlfriend turned wife "cured" my limerence/love addiction for 15 years. As the honeymoon finally ended, as daddy's role at home became less crucial, it was activated again through LO#1 at work, which faded thanks to daily interaction (she became human) and then through LO #2, the hardest crush in the history of my life.
I've managed not to ruin my marriage/life so far. I am going to try to not fall for another LO.
DB
I've managed not to ruin my marriage/life so far. I am going to try to not fall for another LO.
DB
Re: a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
Good video. I am going to read the book he mentioned by Susan Peabody.
I’d like to understand more of the “why” I am this way, but mostly for what I can do to stop this cycle.
I’d like to understand more of the “why” I am this way, but mostly for what I can do to stop this cycle.
Have you no idea that you're in deep?
I dreamt about you nearly every night this week
How many secrets can you keep?
'Cause there's this tune I found that makes me think of you somehow and I play it on repeat
I dreamt about you nearly every night this week
How many secrets can you keep?
'Cause there's this tune I found that makes me think of you somehow and I play it on repeat
Re: a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
Great video.
It’s interesting he mentions dissonance. For me it’s almost like the more I crave my LO the more I experience dissonance from my values and my life…. This in turn lowers my self esteem and leads me to seek reciprocation from LO in order to feel better.
Which then causes dissonance…. A kind of dissonance - self esteem - reciprocation loop.
Surely if someone with my values and my happy home life feels this way about someone it must be love right? Right?
It’s interesting he mentions dissonance. For me it’s almost like the more I crave my LO the more I experience dissonance from my values and my life…. This in turn lowers my self esteem and leads me to seek reciprocation from LO in order to feel better.
Which then causes dissonance…. A kind of dissonance - self esteem - reciprocation loop.
Surely if someone with my values and my happy home life feels this way about someone it must be love right? Right?
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Re: a sobering talk on love addiction and limerence
Alice, I know, isn't it so frickin' dumb?
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