Interest? As in, do I think he wants some kind of romantic relationship with me? No. That's a big no. I've never thought that.Hopeless Lomantic wrote: ↑Fri Feb 21, 2020 5:55 pm Hi there.. is there anything that he has done recently to suggest he might has any interest in you ?
[...]
I have to constantly tell myself that she doesnt give a shit about me to suppress the LE.
Attraction? Yes. Pretty early on after meeting him, I felt very sexually attracted to him and I also felt that it was mutual. Attraction, NOT interest.
I think most people on this forum get confused when I say I think he's attracted to me. Especially women. It seems all the men here know what I am talking about. These two things don't always go together. There can be attraction with no interest.
What's changed is he definitely wants to be my FRIEND. That is clear as day. Whereas before (all my previous posts in this thread), he didn't want any kind of relationship with me whatsoever. I was very hurt. And so confused. I would consider us friends now.
But there are a MILLION signs that point to him being sexually attracted to me (as much as, or almost as much as I am to him) and he just doesn't want to do anything about it because he's a good man. He really is. And he's also very happy with his wife. I would bet a million dollars that if he wasn't happy with his wife, he would pursue a sexual relationship with me. Unless his attraction for me wore off. That does happen.
I get hung up over all the nice and friendly things he does and says to me / does for me. But I don't let myself think that he will ever act on his sexual feelings towards me. It's a struggle.