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Interest in other people

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selkie354
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Joined: Fri Jan 22, 2021 5:17 pm
Canada

Re: Interest in other people

Post by selkie354 »

nowords

Can relate to craving attention and validation and approval. All things I get can get from my LO intermittently. Feel a need to be loved for who I truly am not for what others want me to be. I often feel my family wants me to be someone who I am not, maybe I have the potential to be that person, but its who I am and it can honestly be hurtful to think that they would love me more and be prouder if I could just be X,Y and Z.
itry
Posts: 122
Joined: Fri Dec 04, 2020 3:20 pm
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Great Britain

Re: Interest in other people

Post by itry »

@nowrods and @selkie
I totally understand what you guys are saying about ...
"feeling worthy via someone else out there liking me for who I am" and "Feel a need to be loved for who I truly am"

I feel the same but the only thing I will add is, I feel like no one ever tried to understand me truly. They did not care enough to get to know the core of me as a person :(

I have this expectation/idea that LO is the only person I know who is capable of understanding me that deeply.
What upsets me is that because of all these romantic feelings and awkwardness between us, he is pulling away, and shows no interest in getting to know me.
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