The ABC’s Of Feelings (Teaching Your Child To Identify Feelings)

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The ABC’s Of Feelings (Teaching Your Child To Identify Feelings)

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This one has a simple activity attached at the end.

The ABC’s Of Feelings (Teaching Your Child To Identify Feelings)...

I know what you’re thinking: I’m a broken record with the feelings thing. You’re probably right. My poor little kiddos have to live with me; imagine how they must feel! In my defense, I have a four year old who is able to verbalize the following: “Mommy I feel frustrated and I can’t calm myself down. I need your h
elp!” I also have a two year who can verbalize the following: “I’m just feeling a little bit sad today, Mommy. I just need to cry for a minute.” While my heavy focus on teaching children to identify and verbalize their feelings early might seem a bit much at times, it seems that it does work.

In a recent Twitter chat with a like-minded professional I dared to “whisper” that teaching identification of feelings might actually be more valuable than teaching the ABC’s when it comes to toddlers and preschoolers. After going back and forth a bit, we came up with the following plan: We can teach them at the same time! Sometimes simplicity is genius. Below is my version of what I now think of as “The ABC’s of Feelings”:

A is for Anxious when I worry but don’t know why

B is for Bashful when I feel a little shy.

C is for Confident because I know I can do it

D is for Down when I just need to cry through it.

E is for Excited because I had a great day

F is for Frightened when something scared me away!

G is for Good; I feel healthy and fit

H is for Happy, when I’m in good spirits.

I is for Icky when the day is hard to enjoy

J is for Jealous when I want someone’s toy.

K is for Kooky because being silly is fun

L is for Loving when I want to hug everyone!

M is for Melancholy because some days are blue

N is for Nice when someone shares with me too.

O is for Overwhelmed; there are too many plans for me

P is for Playful, which is a nice way to be.

Q is for Quiet when I need time just for me

R is for Rowdy; I need to set my energy free!

S is for Surprised when someone sneaks up and yells, “Boo!”

T is for Tired; when I need extra sleep too.

U is for Understanding; I know how my friend feels today

V is for Victorious when my team wins in a big way!

W is for Worried; I’m a little afraid of the dark

X is for EXcluded when I wasn’t asked to play at the park.

Y is for Young when I feel kind of small, AND

Z is for Zany, which is the silliest of all!

Added project: Draw faces together to match each feeling and talk about a time when your child felt that way. Have a child who doesn’t like to draw? Sit in front of a mirror and try to make faces to match each feeling! ... -feelings/
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Re: The ABC’s Of Feelings (Teaching Your Child To Identify Feelings)

Post by Sunflower »

LOVE this!! Sending to my kids now....

My biggest regret is any damage I have done to my children who are now aged 20 and 21 -but it’s never too late to make it right. At least limerence woke me up...
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