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This is a confidential peer support group created by and for people who have experienced limerence. This forum is not a substitute for for professional help. Any advice you receive here should be taken in that context.
Feel free to share how you cope or have coped with various situations - that's the purpose of this forum!
Suffering from limerence can be difficult, and sometimes other posters may say or do things that you don’t approve of. We are all coming from different stages, situations, and backgrounds. Please be considerate and non-judgmental about how others live their lives. If you respond harshly or judgmentally, you will make it harder for others to post for fear of being judged.
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We are a diverse community, comprising many races, religions, value systems, and beliefs. Feel free to speak about what's important to you and how your values and beliefs affect your situation but please don't assume that everyone else is the same. Degrading comments about groups of people are subject to removal.
This site does not align itself to any one political, religious, medical or cultural system or bias. Given the evolving and differing natures of understandings, care and treatment of mental health issues and the wide-ranging benefits of different treatments in individuals, the non-professional nature of this site is such that individual perspectives are purely individual opinions. Medical and psychological advice is best sought from the appropriate professionals and it is acknowledged that different people are helped by different practices. Orthodox treatments, although helpful to many is not the only or exclusive method of accessing help.
The main purpose behind trolling is to get a reaction, good or bad. Trolls don’t care what you say about them as long as you are saying it! What really upsets them more than calling them names is not calling them names. There is a very good reason why forums have notices saying “Don’t feed the trolls”. It’s because it actually works.
There is only ever one way to defeat a troll - Ignore them!
If you feel more action is needed, here are some things that can help.
This forum has a foe feature that stops a foe's posts appearing. If you don’t see a post, you won’t want to reply.
If someone is pretending to be you, report it straight away and only reply to posts with “This is not me” if you HAVE to. Ask the moderators to do a post informing people to ignore those messages instead.
DELETING YOUR POSTS:
This can be done by clicking the "Edit" button at the bottom of the post, then clicking the delete button at the bottom right of the editor window that opens. To list all of your posts, do an advanced search for "posts by this user" and enter your username. There is an option at the bottom left that says "Show Results as;" select "Posts." When you get the list or results, follow the same procedure for deleting the posts. We do not delete users or cancel accounts, however we do give you the ability to delete any information you put on the site. We are not responsible for your posts or removing them. Please be aware that once a post is deleted, you will not be able to restore it at a later time.
You can also delete any profile information you entered, by going through the "User CP" links (should show up at the top left while logged in). The same links you used to enter your profile information can be used to delete it.
Deleting an account can't be reversed shouldn't be done unless the member is sure they will not want access to the account again. Note that deleting an account will not delete your posts. Anyone wishing to rejoin after deleting their account will need to sign up with a new account.
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