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Jealousy
Jealousy
Hi guys,
So LO has gone on holiday with his gf today and it’s hit me hard. I keep picturing them having a perfect time and wishing it was me there with him instead.
I 100% know that can never happen, he’s 10 years younger than me, I have a SO who I have a brilliant marriage with and the feelings are not reciprocated with LO. But it HURTS.
I’m still reliving the kiss we had about 6 weeks ago… he’s on holiday not thinking of me at all.
Why her and not me, what does she have that I don’t? Rationally it’s obvious, she’s 27 and can give him a future. I’m 40 and married with a child, mortgage and stretch marks.
But it absolutely HURTS.
So LO has gone on holiday with his gf today and it’s hit me hard. I keep picturing them having a perfect time and wishing it was me there with him instead.
I 100% know that can never happen, he’s 10 years younger than me, I have a SO who I have a brilliant marriage with and the feelings are not reciprocated with LO. But it HURTS.
I’m still reliving the kiss we had about 6 weeks ago… he’s on holiday not thinking of me at all.
Why her and not me, what does she have that I don’t? Rationally it’s obvious, she’s 27 and can give him a future. I’m 40 and married with a child, mortgage and stretch marks.
But it absolutely HURTS.
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Re: Jealousy
How many times can you look back and acknowledge that experience and dynamic with other people?
"You know for a big black guy Cleveland's got a cute little white ass!" Peter, Family Guy
"Um...that wasn't Cleveland," Brian
"Um...that wasn't Cleveland," Brian
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Yes lots. My LO is my sports coach and my last LO was my previous one…..JupiterTaco wrote: ↑Sun Jul 04, 2021 9:59 pm How many times can you look back and acknowledge that experience and dynamic with other people?
The comparisons with others runs deep too, I was insecure in the beginning of my relationship with SO about how I compared to his exes.
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That would do it. What about your parents?
"You know for a big black guy Cleveland's got a cute little white ass!" Peter, Family Guy
"Um...that wasn't Cleveland," Brian
"Um...that wasn't Cleveland," Brian
Re: Jealousy
I’m an only child with a need to feel “special “.
Oh god I’m a cliche!
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Re: Jealousy
Oh my, if I shared a kiss with my LO I wouldn't be able to walk-talk-eat-sleep and would need a round the clock caregiver!
Weak people revenge.
Strong people forgive.
Intelligent people ignore.
-Albert Einstein
Strong people forgive.
Intelligent people ignore.
-Albert Einstein
Re: Jealousy
Sorry you are hurting Alice. That's a painful situation to be in.
"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
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Yes we were both very drunk and agreed to put it behind us, but obviously that’s easier for him than me!peter.rabbit wrote: ↑Sun Jul 04, 2021 11:53 pmOh my, if I shared a kiss with my LO I wouldn't be able to walk-talk-eat-sleep and would need a round the clock caregiver!
The insecure / anxious attachment style I have with him is bad enough as “friends”, if we were in a relationship I’d be an absolute mess! He’s naturally very flirty and owns the gym I go to, I don’t know how the gf isn’t an anxious mess but she’s clearly a lot more secure than I am! Or naive……
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Ah so LOs gf has just posted a picture of them on Instagram looking happy and gorgeous, and it’s broken my heart
I’ve muted her but I can’t unsee it. He’s already text me from his hol and it’s only day 1.
Red wine it is then.
I’ve muted her but I can’t unsee it. He’s already text me from his hol and it’s only day 1.
Red wine it is then.
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Re: Jealousy
Years ago I did that with an LO, which became the start of an affair....long, painful story<sigh>Alice wrote: ↑Mon Jul 05, 2021 8:29 amYes we were both very drunk and agreed to put it behind us, but obviously that’s easier for him than me!peter.rabbit wrote: ↑Sun Jul 04, 2021 11:53 pmOh my, if I shared a kiss with my LO I wouldn't be able to walk-talk-eat-sleep and would need a round the clock caregiver!
The insecure / anxious attachment style I have with him is bad enough as “friends”, if we were in a relationship I’d be an absolute mess! He’s naturally very flirty and owns the gym I go to, I don’t know how the gf isn’t an anxious mess but she’s clearly a lot more secure than I am! Or naive……
Weak people revenge.
Strong people forgive.
Intelligent people ignore.
-Albert Einstein
Strong people forgive.
Intelligent people ignore.
-Albert Einstein
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