Amazing! Well done!AMA210 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 11, 2021 5:33 pm @shoegazer: "Dumb question AMA, what does "LE" mean? I'm still new to this, and don't have all of the abbreviations down. I have LO and SO so far haha!"
LOL....LE is limerence experience and LS is limerent subject.
All kinds of the social media (SM) is especially difficult to deal with, especially for the LS! It's not bad enough that the LO is a thought away most of the time, but adding SM makes them a click away too. The proximity of my LO to my home was literally one minute away. Now I am about 8 minutes away, but my ex-SO still lives there, so just being in that area is really hard for me to deal with.
SM has made things considerably more difficult for sure. There were years where I didn’t know what she looked like. I still remember how excited I was when she first sent me a pic on my very old flip phone. But now, so many ways to track. But I’m the type to bury my head in the sand and not want to know what she’s up to. A friend would tell me when she’d post something on Facebook and I had to tell her to stop, to me that’s her private business, I’m not a stalker. But then I basically stalk her Spotify…
One thing I am thankful for is we’ve always had a lot of distance between us. She’s over 1000 miles away. I cannot imagine dealing with this in your situation. That would be absolutely brutal.