That's awesome T! I'm assuming you're no longer limerent and just missed his friendship. Understandable. At least now you'll get the answers you were wanting. All the best.
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Coping with rejection
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"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
Re: Coping with rejection
Agree with the other poster's- our limerence brains manufacture reasons to reconnect - heck even after 12 years I occasionally (when stressed) think ill write a book about my expereince of limerence and contact LO to get her recollections as that would complete the circle and be a unique analysis of limerence from 2 psychotherapists, botht he LE and the LO. It will just get me thinking all over again. Human hope is a curious beast.
As for the no response - i see many people nowadays dont bother responding to emails. Just yesterday I gave a gift to someone who helped me out. No thank you response as of yet. Is he avoidant? Is he rude? Is he busy? Did he not get the gift? There could be many reasons why and I learned a while back, not everyone operates the same way I do, in face very few do, in fact no one does as I am unique, as we all are. No point wasting my energy over these things which would just fuel my anxiety.
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Re: Coping with rejection
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No good has ever come from feeling guilty neither intelligence, policy, nor compassion. The guilty do not pay attention to the object but only to themselves and not even to their own interests, which might make sense, but to their anxieties. -Paul Goodman
Re: Coping with rejection
Could it be possible that M wants you and FB to fight over him? It can be quite titillating having two women jealous over each others relationship with one person. Just a thought.
"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
Re: Coping with rejection
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No good has ever come from feeling guilty neither intelligence, policy, nor compassion. The guilty do not pay attention to the object but only to themselves and not even to their own interests, which might make sense, but to their anxieties. -Paul Goodman
Re: Coping with rejection
Im confused. See below
Do you like where you are working?
You sound like you're a valuable and valued employee, and sounds like you have regrets you left.
What exactly do you want to say to M? You don't have to answer here. Journaling in private might help you see what you are holding onto, your hopes and dreams, etc.
Thank goodness you're no longer limerent! I hope the talk with M goes well.
So you chose to leave and find another job right? Or are we talking about a different department working for the same employer? How did M group you with CB?
Which is it? Do you think that he is trying to make you jealous, or not?
Do you like where you are working?
You sound like you're a valuable and valued employee, and sounds like you have regrets you left.
What exactly do you want to say to M? You don't have to answer here. Journaling in private might help you see what you are holding onto, your hopes and dreams, etc.
Thank goodness you're no longer limerent! I hope the talk with M goes well.
"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
Re: Coping with rejection
Hey T! Hope all is going well. I see you've deleted your posts. Let me know if you want me to delete quoted snippets (used so I could reply or ask questions).
How did the meeting go? Assuming you've managed to meet and discuss things.
Whether you have or haven't, hope things are working out for you and you're able to get answers and move on in a healthy way and with relationships intact. Keep in mind, toxic relationships are worth ending (not saying yours is because I'm still confused about a few things - not sure whether he's playing you or whether you're limerent/not limerent).
But hoping you're in a better space. Keep us updated!
How did the meeting go? Assuming you've managed to meet and discuss things.
Whether you have or haven't, hope things are working out for you and you're able to get answers and move on in a healthy way and with relationships intact. Keep in mind, toxic relationships are worth ending (not saying yours is because I'm still confused about a few things - not sure whether he's playing you or whether you're limerent/not limerent).
But hoping you're in a better space. Keep us updated!
"And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
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