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Eek, I read about that some time ago. But just because she ended her relationship for this relationship doesn't mean this relationship wasn't meant to end anyway. Maybe it was and this was the catalyst for it and she just misplaced the meaning and message. Who knows...
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I think the big problem is that she expected that a total stranger would cure her unhappiness. That sounds like limerance big-time.

I've definitely done that. You feel a void then you think someone that shows the slightest potential will fill that void right away. I think we can all relate to that-- or at least some of us can
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Zsababy wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 10:06 pm I think we can all relate to that-- or at least some of us can
Yep, me! *raises hand*
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Amanda replied to my email, she hadn't heard of limerence at the time, and others have commented to her since so she has heard the term.
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My wife could have written a similar story by collecting all her semi-delusional journals.
After almost 3 months of separation, forced by me, we got back together. -more or less... there is still a lot of distance-
She has gone to total NC and has totally blocked fantasies. (I want to believe, I don't observe emotional ups and downs or I see that she hides her phone, etc...)
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JupiterTaco wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 8:53 pm just because she ended her relationship for this relationship doesn't mean this relationship wasn't meant to end anyway. Maybe it was and this was the catalyst for it and she just misplaced the meaning and message. Who knows...
Right? Most limerents, in my view, are unhappily married even if they don't recognize it.
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I would argue that most if not, everyone with Limerence is unhappily married to themselves. We are looking to our partners to make ourselves feel happy. It is not our partners responsibility to make us happy, that it’s our responsibility to do ourselves.

Once we’ve done that work, we are then better able to look at our partners and take a more objective view as to if we want to stay in a relationship with them. It may be they to have work to do and are refusing to do that, which is a common situation.
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True. As the saying goes, you can't love somebody else if you don't love yourself. Thus most are in unhappy marriages without realizing it. It definitely takes two but starts with one.
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Or as Ru Paul says "If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?"
It boils down to self-acceptance IMO. Which takes work (which you mentioned David). Within Ru's mandate to love one's self is the implied understanding that self-love means showing up and presenting one's self to the world fully without shame or fear.
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So true...
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