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Swore I wouldn’t contact her

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Drawon
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Swore I wouldn’t contact her

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Hi I’m new here.Been Limerent all my life.My current LO has just informed me she is splitting with her partner because she’s in love with a guy she’s met.I’ve always been in the friend zone and accepted that but this is killing me.She used to text 10 maybe more times a day but now it’s eased off and I’m lucky if it’s once every 2 or three days.I know it’s the fix I’m craving but it doesn’t help.I’ve gone NC for 3 days but today I succumbed.I just want out.Help!
Zsababy
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Re: Swore I wouldn’t contact her

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You backslid and that's ok. Doesn't mean your effort was for nothing. Just get back on that proverbial horse and keep going without her. In addiction, relapse is almost to be accepted, but it's like if you slipped and had a drink it doesn't mean you have to say "welp, I failed. Why fight it?" And drink the whole bottle.

Don't beat yourself up or get into catastrophic thinking, like "oh, no-- my whole life will be this way" or "this is never-ending". There will more than likely be an end sometime. It's a process, not a race.

Good luck to you!
Drawon
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Re: Swore I wouldn’t contact her

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Thanks I needed that! Just seems like a roller coaster of emotions atm.
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